I don't think I post enough on here anymore to get people to crush on me. My biggest former HF crush no longer posts :-(.
It seems pretty clear that rat is your crush. I guess your husband must be pretty secure not to be irritated by your crushes.
Aww thanks. I do enjoy chatting with you too. I think it's people like us who just float through life who are the more interesting people to speak with IMO.. for myself anyway. Hats what I like talking about anyway. Nothing specific, nothing too serious or anything. Just ourselves. If I wanted to learn anything about the world etc. I'd just go and study or read the net, I wouldn't come here and chat to anyone about it. I've been called uninteresting with nothing to say and yep, pretty much and I like hearing that anyway, makes a very quick and straight down line judgement call to not even bother with a user who thinks that because I just know it ain't gone work. I don't really gel with people my own age either. I do have friends my age of course, but they're friends and friends you just get along with because you known them for so long but when I go out and I'm chatting, always to people a decade or more older than I am. I like hearing about life experiences, that's what interests me. Travel mostly. Or interesting things they've done and seen. Beats the hell outta most things.
No, he isn't irritated at all. He's had crushes in the past. Most of his crushes are "friend" crushes, where he gets smitten with people in our friends circle. When you've been with someone for a few years, the "newness" feeling kind of starts to change. Crushes bring that newness feeling back, and are harmless as long as they aren't taken too far.
Porkstock is awesome. I love that dude. Not like in a dick sucking way but we would totally be bros in real life.