How Young is Too Young?

I'm 28, wouldn't go for a girl under 24. No disrespect to all the youngsters, but that's the way I feel about it.

 

I agree a lot with what, you said, but...

I think by dissembled (dissemble - to disguise, to hide, to conceal, to be a hyporcrite, pretend, feign, pretend not to see or notice, disregard, ignore) you probably mean disassmbled. Hopefully. I'd rather take apart bad societal patterns than pretend they don't exist

 

no, you are not fucked up. my boyfriend says he's also attracted to younger girls, and although he's onyl 9, he says about 14-15 even 16 is his ideal age for girls, because they're younger and he likes innocent people better. i'm 17, and he lieks that, he's just being honest by telling me he likes younger girls. but i dont care, because e lieks me

 

Oooops !!:& I should have written dis-assemble as in take apart, pull to pieces, tear up, disintegrate, bust, discombobulate, afrodominate LOL
Thanks for the correction ~ sorry for any misconception

 

mmmm, discombobulate

I normally don't give a shit, it's just that they mean such very different things I'm only rarely a grammar/vocabulary nazi, honest.

 

im 22 and i would only date a chicks that 18 maybe 17 but I dont think so. I like to look at younger women but that is where that would stay, I would never thouch them

 

Very relevant and this puts together everything I would like to say!

 

Specializing in alphabet soup, perchance?

 

when i was 12 a 21 year old man asked me out, thinking i was much older. then when i was 14, i had an 'internet affair' with a much older man, 34. hmmm...

it does happen, yes indeed.

 

ahh. i like your honesty.
okay- *takes out the truth*

when i was 12, a 21 year old man asked me out aswell, thinknig i was 16atleast. and when i was a bit older.. i had an internet affair with a guy who was 27/28..
who knew..

it does happen, indeed.

 

lol loveflower nice pic any more :& peace and lol,

 

It is sooo normal to be attracted to younger girls who seem innocent and offlimits. Why don't you play our your fantasy with your wife? Role playing can be sooo hot. Get her a cute little school girl skirt, white panties and have her put her hair in pigtails.

At the same time, people keep bringing up the old "well older men use to marry teenagers so it must be okay" but remember how women were viewed and sometimes mistreated in these societies. It's very difficult, if not impossible, to have a 50/50 relationship with someone 15 years younger than you with less life experience, education, etc. They're always going to be trying to catch up to you.

 

Did it ever occur to you pervs that mabey a 14 yr old girl doesn't want to have sex with you?

Take it from me, most young girls who say they want an older man are actully talking about a 17 or 18 yr old boy. I don't understand why old men debate this, like they have a naked teenage girl on their bed but are concerned whether it would be moral to fuck her.

Face it! We don't want to fuck 40 yr olds!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

well said peace i couldnt put it better myself

 

Basically, age is a mentality. Age is defined by how much you have experienced in life as opposed to others. It is how much life knowledge you hold, how much wisdom has been gained within the individual. Not how many physical years you've lived, people are very often deceived by this, and have great trust and faith in this sort of "time" if you will. I have met numerous, actually, the majority of adults I've met have mostly been the dumbest of people I've met in my life. Then again, at the same time I've met about the same amount of people my own age and younger, who were in the same exact position. I guess when generalized, adults are no more intelligent OR dumb as people in their teen years. So if you meet someone attractive physically AND most certainly, mentally attractive, and your ages are pretty far apart, I say it's fine. Unfortunately with the laws we live in, by their standards, it's not fine. If there is some secret way to work around them go for it. If not, come up with a scheme, if at all possible. Our societies written AND unwritten laws seem very ignorant to me, they interrupt the grace of life itself in every which way possible. So be aware of them, but in your heart, don't live by them, be free with your choices as much as you can. Remember, if a person is in their much older years, it doesn't mean they've experienced more than a younger person in life, especially if they aren't always in a state of strong consciousness. A person could be between 15-17, and could have experienced many more things in life (or observed and took them to heart), gained much more wisdom, found much greater self-consciousness than a person who is...say between their 30s and 40s. That person between 15-17 could be in the mental state around the age of "50" or even "90" so to speak. Yes people like this are fairly rare to come across. Main point is, learn their person, and decide if you should go for them or not.

 

Oh yes, and it DOES have to be equally OK for the younger person, for this sort of thing.

 

16 for anyone over 19, for everyone between 13 and 19 it's 13

 

If the pictures are illegal your friend shouldn't have them in the first place, so based on that alone it is not ok. By legal definition, a child can not give consent. Which would among other things be the reason the pix are illegal in the first place.

Pix now, what's next? If it was your son or daughter how would you feel?

 

so a 19 year old can nail a `13 year old...but when that 13 year old turns 14 and that 19 year old turns 20...its no longer okay untill she's 16?
hmmm

 

i'd disregard the law in my decisions, and only take into account the opinions of that person i'm with (if they're under 18), and just be careful as fuck, and if being "careful as fuck" doesn't seem like it's working well, i'll just have to completely drop the whole situation. and if the person wishes to wait til "old enough" by law, so be, but that's getting pretty damn unrealistic, especially the younger they are.