Why Females Acting Like This To Me.

dang, the moment you realize that the vinilla gorilla is pretty smart with people

 

Thanks everyone for everything. My father not a good roll model never haven been.neither have my uncle they just think of me as a kid never been in my life to know me. And all my dad and uncles do is disrespect women.

 

So basically you don't understand women and women don't understand you...or girls, not sure how old you are.

 

I'm 26 and truly who do understand them!!!

I know females like confidence and decisive and also a guy to protect ten and getalmen I do know wat some females wat just not others.even my dad told me he don't understand women.but all in all women like a hot guyvwith lots of money.wat other questions u have

 

Women are humans, just like men are, they don't all like the same things, but all humans have the same basic needs. Understanding yourself enables you to better understand others. If you look at women like they're some other animal that's where the misunderstanding comes from and we can feel when guys are looking at us strangely.

 

just do you OP, quit trying to conform to so-called social norms that are out of your character. if people don't appreciate the person you as you are then to hell with them, they aren't worth your time.

 

i think your missing the point when your trying to understand "women".

instead try to understand "people". you see, women are not different from me and you, and it would be a mistake to think that they want something different.

i dont understand why some guys always think that women are some sort of different species. like you have to treat them completely different than a random guy. a perfect example right from your thread is treating women like a gentleman, protecting them, bla, blah bla.....

dont you think thats how you should be treating everybody?? everyone deserves your respect, kindness and all that bullshit.


NEWSFLASH: when you learn how to treat everyone well, everyone will want to interact with you and reflect that positivity right back at you. trust me, take it from a person who understands people, including women.

 

Listen to this guy ^

The guys who think they need to act differently around women or treat them different are the ones who fail consistently. Women are just like men, except with vaginas instead of penises. They aren't aliens. You need to work on yourself as a person.

You mentioned you have schizophrenia, and think people are trying to hurt you mentally, and you shut yourself away from people. Are you aware that people can pick up on stuff like this from a mile away? It's probably extremely obvious to look at you and realize you have some serious issues going on and are not relationship material. I'm sorry but it's the truth. Work on yourself and try to get better mentally.

 

I dont like the fact how you talk like i dont know wat the fuck im saying really thats how i feel when i read your post Wow everything u said I already knew intact was just thinking about it the other day. Its just the fact of about a person a human being. When I said that I should of been more precise and explain it more. But to be honest most people don't like human beings. And women in my life hurt me more then anything are anyone in my life that changed my view. I know how to treat people. I'm a human being but like I said women. I try treating women like how I treat everyone else but women seem to try to hurt me even when I care so I got tired and stop careing about women and sex with them weather they like me are not. OK I'm done talking.I didn't mean any disrespect but I hate when people think are act like they know me.with out asking are elaborate wat they say and wat I said.and to be honest its the same way with males.its not the sex its the person that how I see it.

 

where did you get that idea?? for "normal" people, human beings are central to their life, if not the most important part of it. if you dont like human beings, thats why they dont like you back, duh!!

no disrespect, but go dry up in the desert you dry dick ass nigga.

 

You dont take advice very well

 

Damn that hurt but oh well it is wat it is besides I don't care for relationship don't even think about it but you is right and I have realize it also but I don't think its as horrible as u say are think I do talk to people from time to time I don't think they think bad intact where I live I realize and see a lot of people with issues.besides the females seem to still like me so I don't think its that bad as u say its not like I keep to my self 24/7.but yea.I talk to neighbor's and stuff when I see them.and also there people out there who would help.people attend to be scared of me mainly women and some guys also I see.geeze.people try to start relationship's with me male and female but I told them to just leave me alone I'm cool lol ain't that crazy to say tho I wonder want they think.I think they get very mad at time I catch them and they talk with anger also do my family.some people leave me alone others just seem to get mad.I can't understand why tho.but hell I realize I rather do bad all by myself and good.and wats creepy all the females watching me how I know well this female told me something that she could of not known unless everyone talking. Yea. Well I'm done.

 

Yes I do I listen and understand and remembered. Its just I been treated like I'm stupid all my life and didn't respond well.I should of just elaborate even more in my post oh well.thanks tho I apresheate your help!!

 

^ say what?

oh, the good ole gossip mill...i cannot stand it myself.....most of the time their conclusions are not correct about me, at least, anyway...oh, well....life goes on.

it either feels right or it doesn't....and lately nothing feels right here, either.

 

I'm sorry my damn spelling check fled up I should of check it b4 I post. I ment to say most people don't act like human beings. And me I'm a human being that love and in search of human beings. But my family and my so called past I never meet a human being.

 

Wait wat? Wat u mean gossip and mill and nothing feel right? I'm confuse.

 

Turn that spellchecker off and you may actually spell better, ironically.

 

ok ok, sorry i misunderstood.

btw, i notice people here give such bland advice when it comes to this very taboo topic of hooking up. i think the reason is people who already have the knowledge you need read your posts and get a sense of helplessness. like they dont want to waste their time giving you actual advice that will work because they sense on some level that it will be pointless because the people who post shit like this sound like pussy ass bitches. no offense, but im trying to not give you the same bullshit you've heard countless times over you life.

if you really want to turn your life around when it comes to women and hooking up with them, there are some very painful changes that have to take place. (yes very painful). and its all painful because if fucks with your ego. for example, you might have to look in the mirror and admit to yourself that your a little bitch and you dont like that about yourself and you need to change that, but if you dont have the balls to look at yourself and acknowledge that your a pussy ass bitch then your going to be a pussy ass bitch the rest of your life, which is fine because you will be eliminated from the gene pool making future human beings less pussy.

if you want real advice, you have to get real yourself. get 100% real. right here right now!! whats your real problem? honestly?

you say you go to a university right? so that right there is a great place to meet women. university is such a great place to slut out that its even a common setting for pornos for christ sake.

if your not fucking in university, its because you are not doing so well socially. simple as that. so what makes you do so bad socially? is it some kind of fear? fear of rejection? fear of striking up a conversation??

you have to open yourself up a little bit too. tell us your fears so we can give you good advice, otherwise your just going to get the same old advice:
1) be confident.
2)be yourself
3)join a club

 

btw, tonight is a great night to go out and meet some girls, im currently getting my room ready for the pull:

1) liquor and redbull on hand because you dont want that bitch falling asleep on you.

2) weed and rolling papers, because there is no better closer than "lets smoke a joint".

3) condoms very close to your bed, i put two under my side of the mattress because nothing is worse than fumbling for a condom in the dark while your drunk as fuck and loosing your hard on.

4) have music ready, so its not boring and awkwardly silent when she gets in your room and she knows whats about to go down. i also have some american dad seasons downloaded on my computer for just this occasion.

5) have you room clean and smelling good.

6) put away all your valuables, cuz you dont really know that bitch, u know what i mean?

7) girls will always want to go to the bathroom to "freshen up" 100% of the time so you might as well clean the bathroom too and hide your herpes cream. in fact, ive learned, any tube with the word "anti-fungal" is a turn of to women.

 

I didn't read the post yet but I well.I also need to say I apresheate u to the fullest and for all u have wrote u actually took the time out of your precious life to help my worthless life it need to be told this way. And in fact b4 I was posting this I was thinking about wat u said I mean its good I know but its sometimes better to hear it from someone else.I'm gonna take your advice and give it a try with this girl she's my neighbor she's pretty and I been knowing her for a wile but wat kills me is after we talk she go talking to someone about it a guy.I hate that stuff like that hurt me cause I want to keep it between me and the female(friend) and guy to(male friend)

I remember I made a hamburger for a female and felt bad IMA be seen are something. Idk I always felt this way.