I Dont Believe The Lie Girls Are As Horny As Boys

Until the 20oth Century women had severe consequences from casual sex. In the US it took until WWII to break the religious conservatives strangle hold on lawmakers and birth control to become legal and commonly available. In many parts of the world women still do not have sexual freedom, (or any other freedom-look at Saudi Arabia or the UAE.)
Women, step up and protect what you won in the 60's, sexual freedom. Do not let the Southern Baptists, Methodists and ultraconservative churches in this country rob you of sexual freedom.

 

Why wouldn't they be just as horny? They're people ,aren't they? Somebody has to have some sense about when and with whom sex is to happen. If it was men, you'd have to step over people having sex EVERYWHERE--at the mall, on the street, in the grocery store, at sporting events, and in my front yard! Women are the ones that get to chose. That's the way it is. Can't just get a club and haul one off to the bushes anymore, as it was a few hundred thousand years ago. (exceptions, of course. A few men haven't gone beyond force. Maybe more than a few.)

 

Some are. Some are more so. Some are not as much.

 

Just for the sake of argument, though...

OP, some of us are and some of us aren't. Individuals have different drives. There is also this little thing called restraint, as we ladies have much more to lose if things go South as a result of the encounter. We could be raped, we could get pregnant, we could get an STD, plus it's way more likely that it's going to suck and we'll have risked all that chance for the guy to just say sorry and roll over and go to sleep (not that they all do that, I realize some dudes are cool about giving a shit and finishing the job). If I had my way, I'd be getting it every night, but since my fb has recently become somewhat of an asshole, and I live in the city where it's not super safe to be roaming the streets looking for strange, I'm on my own for the time being- not because I don't still want it, but because I'm being cautious. There is also a little thing called chemistry, where if two people aren't mutually attracted to each other, it's not going to happen. I am not attracted to every hard pole that walks by just as you're not attracted to every wet hole that walks by you. Or maybe you are, I don't know you. Most people don't operate that way. The bottom line is, just because a woman is horny does not necessarily mean she wants to fuck you. That's not necessarily a bad thing or a reflection on you. If you've been rejected, it just means that you either need to find someone who is into it or change up your game.

 

@FireflyIntheDark, I agree with you 100%. Women may well be just as horney as men but for the reasons you stated they must direct their urges in more controlled ways.

 

last i checked, guys can get those too.

 

I also think that in average, men are hornier than women. They have way more testosterone. The female hormones disturb libido more than they help it. There are outliers, but I'm not talking about them.

I'm easily horny... but only for one type of man. If I see a guy my type, and if the situation allows it, I go for it. I'm very visual, unfortunately.

 

Girls are just as horny as guys. I'm just as horny as any guy I have ever been with. But here's the big difference between girls and guys. Men are ALWAYS on. They are hardwired to think about and want sex pretty much constantly. Girls are not that way at all. Sex is not on our minds 24 hours a day. It might not be on our minds even every day. We're hardwired to do and think about other things than just having sex.

But when we're horny, we're horny.

One more note. I think there are are a whole lot of guys out there who think that girls' lack of interest in them must mean girls are not horny. I've got news for you. Horny girls still have standards...unless they're drunk. I'm not sure I can say that about most guys I know.

 

so basically, girls are just as horny as guys even though they are horny less often and with less intensity.

 

@I'minmyunderwear, I think that most girls are just more selective about their partners.
This in nothing new, in the animal kingdom females try to select the best males.

 

I wouldn't even say with less intensity. Equal intensity, just less frequently. With girls, all of the stars need to be aligned. Mood, stress, time of month, energy level, interest in the guy...but the stars don't need to be aligned for guys. Guys just need to be visually stimulated and bammo - they're horny.

Horniness for me is all about the need to get it on here and now. Guys shouldn't confuse horniness with kinkiness. A girl can be horny but just not into doing certain things that her partner is into.

 

It's pure fallacy to generalize on either women or men. Despite the dictates of modern society, there's nothing wrong with any which way one happens to feel sexually.

There's a lot more to being living, loving human than sex drive.

 

No way, man, really? Holy shit.

Yes, I know that. But for us, it's just one more reason on top of many. I wanted to include all the reasons why we might not be in a hurry to jump in. Plus, with women it can be harder to tell if we have something because all of our stuff is inside. That also could be a risk and deterrent for both of us, but honestly I would feel horrific if I gave my regular fb something (or anyone, but mostly him bc he is my friend), so I know it directly impacts how reluctant I am to hop in the sack with a stranger. These are my own personal reasons.

 

Seems that the OP is saying that the male is for more likely to have casual sex than the female. I can't see how unless these males are shagging other males.

what i think they are really getting at is that men will g
consider sex with women they don't necessarily fancy whereas for women there usually has to be some connection there.

 

too much is based on gender and not enough based on the individual. instead of seeing a man a women. why cant society see a person who is an individual? whose likes taste and sex drive is there own. regardless of there sex.

 

i'm guessing us hets base things on gender....why wouldn't I?.....I have no interest in you tony....just your gf

 

good luck to you mate. she only has eyes for me. so bring it

 

So you had quite much oppurtinty to have sex so you are not hungry for it. I never had sex with any girls, just I paid money to hookers for it.Thats why I am obssesed with sex? I am 24. In august I'll turn 25. I am saving money to have sex with a hooker.

 

what dose that have too do with what i am saying. i know many women who had a higher sex drive than me. and i have met men with a higher sex drive than me. Its be the individual not gender.

 

So in short, men usually has quite more interest in sex than women themselves. I never hear a girl rape a man but the opposite happens all the time. You guys have to admit girls have less interest in sex than men do. Women can make money outta having sex because boys are so obsesed with sex that they even pay money for it. For example I am saving about 150-200 dollars to have sex with a hooker. I fucking need sex! I am quite bored of having to be jerking off myself. I save money and go to hookers immediantly. I dont rape a girl, I pay hookers to have sex with me. I am glad there are hookers, it would be too bad if they didnt exist. I cant even imagine how bad this life would be if they didnt exist. How old are you? Maybe you are old enough for these.

 

Ah good old atsizat.