Is It Hard To Be A Man? :(

I agree with sunfighter... I think most of the people here are open minded, accepting and sex positive (which is why it seems like it's all about sex)... who are on a constant journey and looking to experience everything and anything. Of course, like in any group, there are always exceptions to the rule.

 

" good dick is a dime a dozen." Good one! " Give me three dozen , please. Here's my 30 cents.









(Nah. Not gay)

 

I am sooo sorry to hear that. Is there anything I can do to help?

 

Funny you should mention that. I've sometimes wondered what people intuited when they read my screen name on this site. "Buzzgunner" actually refers to nothing sexual in any way. It's a reference to another facet of my life. I am (or used to be, before I got old) a competitive shooter, mostly with (believe it or not) submachine guns. "Buzzgun" is a slang term for an SMG.

 

Stop playing, you know what you can do

 

That's awesome!

 

I sure wish I could! Unfortunately, one of us would have to hop a plane to the opposite coast. Until that happens, I guess I'll just have to fantasize about us getting together and fucking!

(How come we don't have any adult emoticons? What I really need right now is a smiley face with a raging erection!)

 

A big fat cock smiley, I second that motion, all in favour?

 

Aye

 

I don't think it's hard being a man. We have attended several house parties, and yes there was always single men who got left out. Face it the people who hosted these parties were in it for the money. And single men were charged more than couples. The numbers never even out, but a couple of the women went through several men in one night. The main thing was if the guys would show the women a good time, word would get around.

 

Think of it this way, next time you are at one of those things.

There is almost a 50/50 split in number of girls to guys in the population, for however many extra guys there are at those things, there are almost as many girls sitting home alone, trying to eat half a chocolate cake and a tub of icecream while watching reruns of Revenge

 

i would much rather do that than not get laid at a sex party.

 

well, any man who makes an effort and is capable of lowering their standards to be able to fuck a physically disgusting person. some of us just can't get it up for a gross-looking woman.

 

Why does a man who develops his social skills and exposes himself to more and more social experience necessarily have to fuck disgusting unattractive women? That would basically imply attractive women don't like men with social skills. Doesn't make sense. Please check your logic.

 

Personally, I think there are two sides of this coin.

It is certainly difficult to be a man, when one is struggling financially by working a menial job, lives paycheck to paycheck, and either still lives at home or in a tiny apartment with 4 roommates. This type of situation - as long as they actually care about it - tends to ruin a man's confidence, self-esteem and overall perception of their masculinity. I don't know if it is because of some evolutionary or genetic aspect that drives males to fill that male provider role, or just a desire to be socially accepted by the people around them, but it certainly does make a huge difference. As a person who has been in that situation myself, while reasonably attractive, intelligent and social, I had a much harder time "playing the game" so to speak. There were opportunities, but I found myself either being oblivious to them, or purposely ignoring them in fear of rejection that would make me feel even more miserable.

At the same time, once my financial - and thus social - situation improved to a point where I was no longer obsessing about it, I found myself attracting girls that I previously thought were unattainable. Ironically, I wasn't throwing more money around at bars or clubs, but in fact was spending a lot less, it was just a mere confidence boost that pushed me as a male from that miserable chump that considers it luck when he gets laid, to a normal guy that can be be selective and no longer looks at sex as some unattainable goal.

Obviously, this is no way limited to one's financial situation. It can be anything, the way one looks, they way one speaks etc. Basically, it is difficult to be a male when one's confidence level is low, while shy or self-conscious girls will still be able to find sexual partners very easily. Similarly, confident men will find themselves becoming objects of attraction, and will be able to be a lot more selective when it comes to sexual partners.