This is absolutely true! Sometimes I like more to jerk off instead of having sex with my gf! It gives me more pleasure, I think because I know what I want, the movements, the speed... Inviato dal mio iPhone usando Tapatalk
I have a masturbation system, bare with me: Weekday masturbation is 2-3 a week normally in the morning between 4am-5am. Everyone is asleep and I am an early riser (hit the gym every morning at 6am). Weekend masturbation is maybe twice a month between 5am-6am. So the where is pretty easy. This all happens while my family is sleeping. On the 1% occasion I am home alone, masturbation is a guarantee! This is when I head to my 70 inch TV in my den and let the explosions begin. The other 99% of the time, it is at my computer desk where my porn collection is readily available. I have masturbated without porn and it SUCKS in my opinion. So that is about 14-15 masturbation sessions a month. Damn, that sounds like a lot for a married man. On a side note, a close personal friend of mine gave me an incredible new lube choice. It is called coconut oil. Wowzer!!! Stuff is better than lotion, baby oil, vaseline combined. And it smells amazing. I refuse to wank with anything else.
T.C......jerk off instead of the lady. Bro, I love to wank but there is no comparison to embracing a woman. Smelling her hair, tasting her lips, feeling how she grabs on to you. Bro, I can't agree with you on that one. But I will say, I have had to jerk off after me and the wife have had a less than filling love making session so maybe I get where you are coming from.
Hey that really amazing infact I really get fed up when she says nope for SEXO,, but in the end I have a good quick wank and shoot all over her thighs.
This sounds exactly how my life is these days. Im up at 4am to hit the gym before work ( Military ) and wife isnt up until 6 or so and its easy enough for a jerk in the morning with family all asleep. Weekends are tougher since the wife and kids are around so its limited. I probably do it at least once a day and that doesnt include doing it with the wife. Sometimes she'l be getting ready for work and no time for playing around so I'll jerk off while shes getting ready for work. Although its much better in my office away from wife and kids to pull up some porn on computer and spend a couple hours enjoying myself. The few times I was able to enjoy the 60" flatscreen, I end up getting walked in on and comes to a pause real quick.
I do it only if my other half is away for too long... meaning more than 7 days, which barely even happens. This makes our fun more intense...!
At our first apartment, an older couple that lived in the apartment next to us (2 story complex, with an inner courtyard and pool) moved after about 6 months to a downstairs apartment. Soon another young couple moved in. They are Asian and she is very attractive. We became friends with them. My wife knew how attractive I found her. One day, she was laying out below at the pool, and I was watching her. My wife noticed and said: "If you like to look at her so much, why don't you just start masturbating?" (Never has she called it "beating off," "jacking off," or "jerking off," always "masturbating,") I said, "What?!" She knew I had jerked off before. We had talked about it, but I had never done it in front of her. I didn't know if she was mad, or playing, or what. She said, "Go over there by the window (you couldn't see anything from the outside...), take off your pants and masturbate while you look at her." She threw a kitchen towel at me. So, I did. She continued to work (I guess... I was focused elsewhere). Nothing more was said. A couple of weekends passed, and I went downstairs to the laundry room. Our neighbors were at the pool. She had on a really, really tiny bathing suit. I thought about it for a bit then said, what the hell... My wife was cleaning the kitchen. Taking the basket back up, I took a quick shower, dried off, grabbed a washcloth, went into the living room opened the drapes (like I said, you can see me but it looked like I just had no shirt on), stood by the corner of the window and started jerking off. She came over to the window and looked out. "Really?" Immediately I felt my erection start to sink. She said for me to go ahead, then she left. I took my time and finished. After I was done and cleaning myself up, I turned to go back to the bathroom. Out of the corner of my eye I saw my wife sitting on the couch, nude, legs open, feet on the floor, eyes closed and masturbating. I watched until she came, then she pulled her hands back and took a little nap. She had never done this in front of me before. After, she said she had been practicing and was finally able to make herself climax. She told me that she wanted to tell me, but just couldn't get it out. So, she used the girl next door to get me to jerk off in front of her and she'd masturbate in front of me at the same time. Go figure. She said she really wanted to do this the first time but couldn't bring herself to do it. She thought she'd never get the chance again, but when she saw me do it on my own, she jumped at the chance. So, I had been set up, as it were. I thought since it was just a ruse, she'd want me to stop. She said no, she actually liked watching me and it excited her to know that I would masturbate to other women in front of her. I told her how much I liked watching her, and I hope she'd do it all the time. I said I'd love to come home and find her nude and masturbating... As much as possible! I wanted to hear about her masturbating at work, public restrooms, the car... Wherever!
That's went you need to jerk off? Poor guy. I'm of the age and physical condition that my wife and I don't fuck much anymore. She's ready and willing when I can perform, so the slowdown is all on me. Anyway, When we were much younger (in our 20s and 30s), if I woke up in the middle of the night with wood and couldn't wake her up, I had carte blanche slip her legs open, climb in between them, and fuck her while she slept. She told me that she'd much rather wake up to find me thrusting in her than to get up the next morning and and find that I had to do a load by hand the night before. Consequently, I've fucked her on numerous occasions while was sound asleep. It became a challenge for me to see if I could fuck her gently enough that I could get all the way through and cum in her without her ever waking up. I never succeeded, but I got close a few times. Oddly enough, the last girlfriend I had before meeting my wife was the same way. She like to wake up to me already fucking her. Crazy, huh?
Oh, in answer to the original question, I've been married for over 35 years and I still masturbate almost daily. Even when I was young and my wife and I fucked a lot, I'd frequently masturbate in between us fucking. As for my wife, well, I know she masturbates, but only because she's told me that she does. I've never seen her do it and she'd never bring it up voluntarily. After all these years, her willingness to try different sex-related activities has improved measurably, but trying to get her to talk about any of it is like pulling teeth. She intensely dislike discussing sex activities and get quite angry if pressed for details.
I seem to have similar habits to rudemarineboy. I'm happy to wank off in front of my wife and she's not averse to me spraying her with my cum. If she's not in then I'll either watch one of our sex tapes or grab a pair of her panties to sniff and clean myself up with. She's never caught me doing either of these activities but I'm pretty sure she's knows what I get up to when the mood takes me.
Just lately, my wife has taken to watching me masturbate or cuddling me whilst I wank myself off. It's very erotic for us and I'm not sure who enjoys it the most; her watching, or me being watched!