How long do you wait to first have sex when your in a relationship with someone?

there is no right or wrong answer.... I do think that it helps if you can have a few dates first, to make sure about things, but that is not necessary.......

 

When I was on the open market I had a 2 date rule, if I didn't have sex with a woman by the second date, there were no more dates. I know. I am a pig. But after ending an 18 year relationship, that is how it was. When I met my now wife, I did not sleep with her for about 2 months. However, I still had 5 or 6 other women that I was having sex with regularly until I committed to my wife then all that ended. 8 years now of complete monogamy...

 

I'm afraid to admit that it was all of 10 minutes, but it became a very passionate and loving rtelationship

 

How long do I wait? As soon as she is ready