I'm happy with just one, but I'm very multi-orgasmic so I usually have more. Depends on the situation but I've had up to around 20 or more at times. Usually, it's around 4 to 5.
That really is a good question and I'm curious as to what others think as well. Personally, I think it has to do mostly with being able to completely relax and let go. Plus I always bring this up, but hormones play a huge factor in sex drive and performance as well. With that being said, past negative experiences could play a part in the relaxing enough to let go and orgasm away.
Oh yes.. I agree with all of those things. Relaxing, desire, understanding, knowledge, past negative experiences (and getting help for those)... I think also your physical health and maybe you mental health too.. attitudes, and beliefs as well. It's interesting that you mention hormones... I wonder how they do affect it. I am post-menopausal now, but I have a much higher sex drive now than I ever did when I was younger. But I think part of that is for those other things too.
Wow, that makes two of us. I was just certified by my doctor as post-menopausal and my sex drive has been off the charts. My poor darling husband. lol
My wife is post menopausal and is like a little kid in a candy store when it comes to sex..She says that she was "never" multi orgasmic with her first husband..yet when we are making out she will cum if I suck on her nipples..then cum several more timeswhen I am eating her..she will cum "again!"..a couple of times after I put my cock in her pussy..then again after I go down on her again after I have blown my load in her pussy.Sometimes...if ahe is not too worn out..lol..she will suck me off..and when I cum on het face.."she" will cum again..I lose count of her orgasms...I will tell you honestly...A post menopausal woman with dentures will "lierately and figiratively" blow the younguns away! I am glad my wife is multi orgasmic..and that I am the one that can pleasure her...ready for oral 24/7/365.
Cum on demand sounds nice.. know as a guy.having a lady want your juice so bad..theydo everything in their power to make u cum...I just try to make mt lady feel good..if she wants oral ..or vaginal sex or wants to suck my cock..and have me cum on her face or in her mouth...I hope she keeps me around..lol..
Nothing wrong with that. I am totally convinced that horny people are much healthier than anyone else. No matter what your size, age, or lifestyle.
^^^ I agree im a man who has had real multiples before , im working towards making them more consistent. wow and check you ladies out, yes its true what most people say it is actually all in the brain, the body and stimulation just triggers it. The Amygdala the brains emotion centre stores information, this infromation is stored from expriences, so when orgasm occurs it store the information the physical responses and stores the suitable response to it. And with time the response occurs more frequently and quicker.
My husband USUALLY gives me one orgasm when we have sex, and my current lover makes me orgasm at least 3-5 times every time we have sex.
I've always been multi-orgasmic, but recently, with a new partner, I also have numerous squirting orgasms. I actually am unable to count how many as I'm in another world when I orgasm!! Oh I'm also post-menoposal...... My partner always makes sure I have a few orgasms before penetration, he enters me whilst I'm in the middle of an orgasm. Sometimes I am actually unable to stop having orgasm after orgasm during sex. I am always exhausted afterwards......
I think that I average about 3 orgasms whenever I have had sex. It has always been about that many with a few mind blowing exceptions (I think the most was 7). I have been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years and the sex has gotten much better over time, but the number of orgasms I have hasn't increased. They have just gotten longer and more intense.