^^ Is the scenario, "the three of us will have sex, during which you will suck" or "after you suck the husband, you and the wife will go off and spend the night alone together" I think I'd prefer #1.
For such a somewhat complicated scenario, here is an extremely simple solution: Walk a bit further down the beach, meet a woman who doesn't come packaged with another guy's dick.
Don't worry about being pigeon holed into one of three categories (straight/bi/gay). Human sexuality is far more complex. American biologist, Alfred Kinsey, divided the hetrosexual/homosexual spectrum into 8 categories, and even that may be too few. I'm a hetrosexual guy, and I continue to say so because I have no attraction to men. I would never date one. I would never kiss one (that's too intimate). I know, I could only have an emotional connection with women. Like you, a few years ago I became "curious". After fighting it for over a year, I finally gave in and sucked a cock for the first time. OMG. But a funny thing happened. It didn't rock my world. It was no big deal. I didn't actually like doing it at all, but later I still craved more. I did it a few more times, and same result, but was definitely getting used to it. I was always chatting with other guys on craigs list who were experiencing the same feelings (and there were lots). Everyone was the same, they couldn't look the guy in the eye, they didn't like it, but they wanted more. Today....I'm totally comfortable with it, and in fact, I love blowing a guy. Of course, finding a decent guy is difficult. I'm still picky. But yeah...some days I'm dying for cock. I certainly never thought I'd be like this. To me it was always......touch a guy and your gay. I'm a lot older and smarter now.
Did it once during a mmf 3 some. Haven't done it since but I can say I definitely enjoyed doing it, I think it was the heightened arousal situation that did it.
If you suck dick... then you aren't straight. It's as simple as that. Does this need to be explained to you. Chromosomes, DNA, reproductive organs.... you figure it out.
Why don't you express to your wife that you are interested in a 3some, and mention that your willing to have another guy. Now if something happens like you stroke his cock or suck it, fantasy full filled.
I don't judge. Be yourself. But if you're sucking cock, and you're a guy, you're not straight. Just my opinion. Again, I'm not judging anyone.
well, u might not be gay but it you're a guy and your sucking cock and you like it .. then yea, ur gay
(sigh) Some food for thought: http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/evolution-the-self/201205/the-secrettaboo-aspects-male-sexual-desire http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/evolution-the-self/201205/you-can-t-much-help-what-turns-you
I've met several straight guys off swingers sites who have asked to suck my cock, some of them have wanted me to fuck them too.
I would consider myself straight not bisexual. I don't find men attractive in any way but would love to suck a guys cock through a glory hole.
I often jerk off to porn where a guy is sucking another guy. I have never been sucked by a guy and don't know if I could let that happen and I certainly would not suck another guy. So I'm thinking that makes me like 88% hetro and 12% bi-curious.......
Bisexual, straight, gay...who cares. I fuck my wife. I suck dick. I have eaten coworker's pussies and I have been fucked in the ass by men. It's not a matter of preference. It's about which flavor is up for it tonight.
[SIZE=9pt]Well the first time I thought about sucking cock, was watching porn. Seeing nice looking cock and thinking about how it would feel.[/SIZE] [SIZE=9pt]Then one night the wife and I were drinking and watching porn and I asked her if she though the guy had a nice cock. Then told her I thought he did. [/SIZE] [SIZE=9pt]When we were fucking, missionary stile, I asked her if she would like to try fucking with another couple in the room. That led to talk about a 4some. I looked her in the eye and I asked her if it would turn her on to see me suck cock. It really did turn her on so we started looking for another couple. We never did get to the 4some (tried but we all worked and schedules never match up) but that’s when I started sucking cock.[/SIZE]
Average 6 guy, Thanks for your honesty. Guess, so you've sucked dick and the world didn't collapse. Go figure. In the mean time, you're enjoying yourself and having your needs met. Somethings just don't need to be shared with the Little Woman. It's not like she has something to meet your needs. Good for you.