The video's a bit creepy to that song. I'm pretty sure it was supposed to be showing that she killed him....(even though everyone else just thinks he's missing). The song is stuck in my head now.... right before I go to sleep in few mins, thanks.
i doubt its completely a myth. but i do know that media will focus on anything they think will shock or alarm people. again i am grateful for the fortune to have avoided trouble with the law. possibly because i am over cautious, and i apologize for not doing more for the causes i believe in then i might have, had i been more willing to get arrested for involvement in direct civil action. it was just how i was raised, to be overcautious. but i do call heroic those who willingly get themselves arrested to protect the rights of others.
The media and the shows Lock-up, Lock-up RAW, Behind bars, Life after prison etc give a pretty good idea. But IMO, They focus too much on the negative to give the idea its worse than hell and 'you have to do this and that' to survive. I listened to many stories from ex-cons and 'just what goes on' inside an institution and how crooked all of them are. The people running it get a cut for them selling alcohol and drugs, Gambling and mild extortion. But, If one was raped etc, I cant say they would tell the whole story if raped, Would you?
I worked with a kid who was in for a few years. He would talk about what it was like inside quite a bit. He was a very small kid with the "pretty boy" look. He talked about the gangs there. And he mentioned one group that was for stopping people getting beaten up and raped. Then he said. But that group is just another gang. This kid never said he was raped but the fact that he was mentioning this other gang and how they are for stopping rapes. That makes me think he must have had problems with rape. So yogi you are right i nor he would tell the whole story but you can read through the lines.
To me, Its just plain sick to think about and the mindset you'd have to have to bulldog a guy and rape him. Those people are some sick tickets and need locked in the dungeons until they cant remember how to talk and light of day blinds them. All along the child molesters get their own wing and on TV don't look like they have it too bad compared to what you could have. I still say throw them in to general population so they get ten fold payback, But they get 'special treatment' cause they can only hurt kids, They pansy bastards. I think if I were to ever go, I don't think id ever leave. That kinda seems what they want IMO when you look at the strict guidelines PO's put on them. Look what they do when its probation, Id hate to see the ex-con list.
I can see myself going to prison for a short sentence and ending up doing life cuz some sicko forced me to have to kill him. And what other choice would I have? Yeah, if just "walking away" was an option I'd gladly take that over violence but there's nowhere to go. And it's not like "snitching" is gonna do my safety well either, the guards would probably just laugh and make it known that you cried out for help then let them have their way with me while they watch for entertainment. I'm not a "tough guy" and could easily be overpowered by some of these animals (that is the best description of them I can come up with) that act purely on primal primitive drives and instincts, aside from the sadistic twist that animals are probably not capable of but I can still kill ya dead and then ur no longer a threat, to get the upper hand I'd have to resort to methods which would likely end in death, any sharp object I could find or fashion. Then I'd be a respectable man in their eyes, with nothing else to do but to become one of them.
I don't think it's so much rape as it's like I don't want to do this but I need to do this for protection or for drugs or whatever so they have sex with men. Also I can't imagine that all these men are going all that time with out a bj