Does teh number of men a woman has slept with alter your opinion of her?

^^^What he said^^^
A woman who knows and admits what she wants is what I call a
'wild woman' and she's far more fun.:sunny:

 

I don't know what to say. I guess I was a slut before I got married. I've been a faithful wife for 12 years. But life sure was much more fun when I was single. My husband isn't that interested in sex anymore and that really pisses my off. So some of you would judge me as a bad woman when I was free and having fun screwing around (which I'm glad I did and wish I'd done more of it). But I judge myself as bad for being weak and staying in a marriage that I'm not happy in. I stay because, yes I do love my husband, we have history and all but also I stay also because he is the bread winner and gives me a very nice lifestyle, although without much sex. And 'no' as long as I'm married I will not seek out other sex partners. I'm trying to deal with my problem and trying to be happy with out much of a sexual life. It's very difficult for me as I'm hyper horney, but there you have it. Slutty happiness or chaste misery.

 

I know I will be in the minority, but it does affect my opinion of a lady if she has fucked with a number of men before me. And, it affects me in a positive way! In other words, the more guys who have fucked her before me, the more I want to fuck her, myself!

 

I didn't read all of this thread because I have only one question. Does the number of women a man slept with alter your opinion of him?

 

More than one goat would do it for me.

 

Could care less how many men a woman I am with has been with in the past. Would rather be with a sex positve open minded person with experience then one without. I would be more concerned if they had a history of being a cheater in which case I would avoid starting up a relationship with them.

 

If I found out before or on the 1st date that she has been with 100 people then I would be looking to get some the first night. If only 2 then assume it would not happen. But overall who they are no it would not affect my opinion.

 

I am with Son of John, the more the merrier, if she is nice and you both like each other what difference does it make. You should be best friends as well as lovers. May want to get some health screenings done to be safe. I could not say a lot anyway considering the numbers I have in my trophy case. Why wouldn't it matter both ways? My wife knows that I was with a lot of women before her, she can't change my past why should I worry about her past. We have run into some of her old flings and I get a kick out of the fact that most still want to get with or be with her. Some have tried only to be put off once again. Many have tried that were never with her to begin with. It does her ego well to have options, LOL Its called Trust.

 

Do people ask the number of fuck partners?

 

When I met my present wife, and after a short period I began to realize that she had been fucked by a great number of other men before me, it was a great turn-on for me. I will openly admit that the one thing that led to our later marriage, and my complete enjoyment of her, as a sexual partner, was the fact that I knew, without having to guess, that so many other men had enjoyed her lovely naked body in the way that I was then.

And, although I did not admit it to her, when we were fucking if I was having "trouble" cumming on time, I would say to myself, in the silence of my mind, "They fucked my wife! They fucked my wife!" over and over, and the effect was just what I needed. I could cum almost instantly while thinking of the other men who had had their cocks in her pussy before me!

And something else: I know the effect would not have been the same if we were not married. I had fucked other women before, who had given their bodies to lots of other men, but it wasn't the same as after this one woman was my legal companion. It was the fact that they had fucked MY wife which made all the difference.

 

This is an interesting thread. I like to think I've been with an low number of men (more than 1, less than 10) considering my lifestyle. Most people are shocked when they find out my actual number. I'm EXTREMELY picky, about having sex with men.

Women on the other hand... I'm kind of a slut when it comes to females.
:leaving:

 

More is better

 

ALL of the women I ever had sex with had previous partners. They were attractive women who enjoy sex. I was never involved with prudes and have no desire to be. Why would a guy want that ? The thought of even trying with some prude never entered my brain. ...Oscar

 

I've never been the most confident person with women which I blame on a broken home and child hood but when chicks at school would talk about fucking friends of mine I'd always end up pretty jealous I guess cause I didn't want to know that shit and why not me?

Don't get me wrong, I love a good looking girl, I don't mind porn and all fetish stories people write up that they believe they participated in but deep down I have resentment for the women, big time. I don't know why. I just do. It's quite awkward for me to talk about to people in the flesh because it's so hypocritical. I love what they do but I hate them for it. Maybe I'm just jealous of the guys I don't know. Maybe it's because I chose to stay single until I found the right girl so I didn't end up with 3 divorces like my father, and I resent myself for the experience that I don't have with other women. If I'd been with more partners than one would I think differently? Maybe.

Other than that I'm really not interested in many peoples sex lives so if I had to hear a woman squawk about all the dudes she had been with it would definitely give me a negative impression about her. I tend to not get along with many people that think too much of themselves publicly.

 

Doesn't bother me, sex is a beautiful thing and variety is the spice of life...

 

Eh, in a way that would all be normal and understandable if you were like that with everything. Or if that's not making sense... let me try to give an example. I don't like people who brag about themselves about...ANYTHING. Or I shouldn't say I don't like them... I don't like IT when people do that. And I tend to think they are either lying or just not that good at whatever they are over and over again saying they are that good about. Because imho people who really got something going on or who are really good at something (anything!) don't NEED to talk about it. Sure, mention it once or whatever but keep talking and you seem like a doofus, ya know? I'm like that about ANYTHING. I don't need to talk or brag and hate when people do.

That said.. I'm pretty sure there's not one person in this world who knows how many men OR women I have been with.(And it's really not important).

 

Pretty much everything new i learn about a person affects my view of themq

 

That all seems to make sense and yes I am bothered by anybody that overly brags about themselves. Like you said it all reeks of bullshit to me too. Within a group of mates I fully expect bullshit to go hand in hand especially on the terps but if it's a random person, or someone I don't know well who's trying to fit in the worst thing you can do to me is start talking shit especially shit that's not important pretty much like sex partners.

 

Yep. But yea it equally irks me if someone starts talking about how many drugs they've done or how much money they've made or whatever.