That sounds very true. That's why seduction books like The Satanic Witch encourage women to be insecure. Like "my name is Lucy but I'm thinking of changing it to Tammy." And yes, I've known super-confident women who came across as obnoxious and ghetto.
Dude, take it easy. In the world we live in nowadays, women start losing their "value" (beauty) before they turn 30. After they hit that mark, it's harder for them to remain attractive (to society's standards), after a certain age they can't have kids, etc. With men the story is different. Men start reaching their most valued status around the age of 30 and are at the top of their game in their early 40s, and of they play their cards right, they can stretch it well into their 50s. We're talking about money here, and the level of comfort and stability they can provide to their female counterpart. While I don't think it's the way it should be, it is the way this modern society works. Girls: stay young and pretty to attract men. Men: be successful to be a good provider to your woman. If you wanna get laid, get a hooker. Of you go on a date with a girl, you'll invest time and money, you'll try to look your best, take her out to watch a movie and for dinner, and in the end you might have to go home and jerk off. At least with the hooker you know you'll have what you're looking for.
I would like to go a little more easy on them and say when they talk too much it still also depends a bit on what they say. For instance I could listen to you all day when we're talking rock 'n roll (please put a music break in between every now and then though! ) or history :2thumbsup:
I agree that you should go a little easy on them too. One time I was on a date with a girl and she talked her mouth off the entire time, but I later found out she did this because of nerves and talking/monologuing I guess relieved the tension for her. She was cool and more chill once she understood silences aren't always awkward and she's was a good friend still when we parted, and ultimately married and had as full a life as possible until she passed away prematurely. (I believe I referenced or alluded to whether it was appropriate to attend a funeral of an ex who was married a few months back, this is one in the same)
OP all I have to say is this. I was in your shoes once. My level of frustration was equally as bad as yours and probably worse. So what did I do? I became a member of that 20% of guys. Get off your computer and go talk to some people. You might be surprised at how easy it might be to get to where you want to be!
I'm glad you agree with me. Again, I used to be in this fellow's shoes. But then one day I realized that if you want to be a ladies man, it is something that you are going to have to work hard at. You can't be like Eliot Rodger and believe that women are just going to fall at your feet. You have to get out into the world and meet and interact with people. And this opens up a few more questions which I think are reasonable. Does the OP have a job? Does he have any friends? Or does he sit on his computer all day and wonder why girls are not waiting for him at his door? There are more than enough females in this world for the OP to have sex with. Now, he might not get to pick from the cream of the crop, but if getting laid is all he wants, that can be accomplished with minimal effort, I would think.
So this would imply that most married woman are cheating. I can believe many have a few times over the course of the marriage but not continually. So the 20% of men would be the most handsome or have the bigger penises.
Total nonsense. Still don't understand how it comes into the equation. In Western civilisation anyway. My wife and ex have had 3 or 4 times the amount of partners than me so goes with the theory of 80% women are up for it.
Total nonsense. It's almost impossible to get away with it this day and age if the woman (or man) report it. I know a lot don't get reported as my first gf and wife had experienced something when younger.