Is age an issue for you?

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  1. purpledragon11

    purpledragon11 Guest

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    I used to think that age didn't matter as long as there was a sexual,emotional,physical and mental connection. Now, I'm not so sure. When I've been with older women,the age has become apparent. either from talked down to or just their physical body. What do you think?
     
  2. erzebet1961

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    Honey , My lady is 26 years younger than myself , and to me , age is just a number as long as the person is a healthy emotional age. Of course there are some folks who are not very mature no matter how old they are .
     
  3. girl with wings

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    I don't think it matters. My gf is 14 years older than me and I love it :)
     
  4. 2QT2BESTR8

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    If you want me to be honest, I believe there is a limit somewhere. Im not judging others though, if you're happy you're happy, and Im happy for you all. My girlfriend is 6 years older than me. Im 18 she is 24
     
  5. dame-luvs-class

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    I am 21 and my g/f will be 33 on the 15th of April. To me I would prefer to be with anyone older than me. I prefer someone who knows exactly what they are doing and how it is to treat a woman right. She preferred older woman also but I changed her mind I was always considered to have an old soul. I think love is love there doesnt have to be an age limit (well u kno as long as both participants are 18 n over lol)
     
  6. MISSTA

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    I think age does matter. When I was younger, I didn't. I always dated older, but that didn't mean wiser or mature. I'm 34 and my wife is 53. I am the mature and responsible one. I think about having children one day. Can't see that happening with her. She has experienced and done things I have yet to experience. I would love to be with someone I can have some first with. We were on and off again for 15yrs. Now I think it's just over, but she doesn't want to let go.
     
  7. mycircumstance

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    it can be an issue, only if you make it, but if you find someone you click with and there happens to be a noticeable age gap, it wouldnt matter much.

    in all honesty, i would prefer to be the younger one in the relationship, probably because of some underlying insecurity, i dont know, but i have no issue with possibly dating older women, so long as she is mature of course, but has a fun and energetic spirit.
     
  8. mycircumstance

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    it can be an issue, only if you make it, but if you find someone you click with and there happens to be a noticeable age gap, it wouldnt matter much.

    in all honesty, i would prefer to be the younger one in the relationship, probably because of some underlying insecurity, i dont know, but i have no issue with possibly dating older women, so long as she is mature of course, but has a fun and energetic spirit.
     
  9. silk896

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    The boobs can't pass the "pencil test," the tummy is softer, the bum is closer to the ground and the thighs have a hint of cellulite.
    Age happens!
    Accept it!

    I know I aren't as physically attractive to the 20 somethings, but then part of ageing is still wanting a partner close to your own age.

    See me around menopause and I might be feeling different, but atm, I'm okay with myself and my libido, and my partners.
     
  10. sushibey

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    age is just a number,it shouldn't affect our reasoning
     
  11. sportylez10

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    Isn't an issue with me iv always prefered older women
     
  12. Melesbia

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    I like older women. When I first came out, I was dating a woman who was 47 and I was 19. She was 3 months older than my mother. Over the years I've grown out of that extreme age difference. Now I am married to a woman that is 7 years older than me. Since we are in our 40's (me) & 50's (her), the space almost feels like too much gap now. It's likely 7 years I'll have to live without her because she'll die before me, assuming we die of old age...
     
  13. BeachBall

    BeachBall Nosey old moo

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    If we'd never learned to count, who would be bothered about age??
     
  14. Bunnie

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    I think it matters. I couldnt imagine being with someone much less than a few years younger or a few older. To each her own! :)
     
  15. Beca012

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    It doesn't matter to me at all. I'm not "looking" for an older or a younger woman. But if I did meet someone older or younger that I fell in love with then it wouldn't matter.
     
  16. MidoSlide

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    Hi! I'd think that age is an issue, but it depends. I've got a girlfiend who was 4 years younger than I and it was horrible. In fact, I could handle being with older womans before but the problem was so easy and still unbelievable: I was 19 and she 15 years old... I realize that the matter wasn't the age differences but the lifetime.
    That's how it is, we'd live our life in many ways but there's still a diference in our likes; I'm sure that we could be going out normally if she was 20 and me 24 but at 15 nobady's ready for a long term relationship, even I wasn't ready at that age.
     
  17. Jerlene

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    So I've read this thread and only have one question; What is the pencil test?
     
  18. drawinginblank

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    I don't think age really matters, unless it is illegal for wherever you live. I used to date slightly younger girls, but now it's getting a little weird in my current state. I've been interested in old women. But I think it doesn't matter for the most part. Do what makes you happy.
     
  19. Janya

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    Age doesn't matter ever in my opinion because its with who you feel comfortable, happy and healthy because feel something for another person its the most beautiful thing and that have not age, race or social status.
     
  20. abigailV

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    In the end its what you are attracted too, i like maturity so i naturally gravitate towards older women.
     

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