Scared of Sex

a condom plus another form of birth control (like if the girl is on the pill) = very low chance of pregnancy

is it that you can't stand the idea of being a father, not ready right now, or only with the right girl?

you certainly don't have to have sex if you don't want to, but if you're going to ejaculate anyways, you might find it more rewarding during intercourse than in masturbation.

therapy might help to cure you of this.

you could also find a girl who doesn't want to have sex until she's married/ready to have kids. a church or christian themed dating group might be the thing for you.

 

No one has Un wanted you, they are trying to help you.

 

I am not ready, and if I was, it would have to be with the woman I was going to marry.
I suppose therapy is the best option.
Thank you for being so understanding, this was the best answer out of them all.

 

Hey Mr. safetytx you forgot to answer this one before you left us. ^^^

I didn't read that everyone posted that sex isn't for them.