I agree a human touch is better than any sex toy. Sex toys are the next best thing and best if used with a partner.
I bought my woman a simple, slim vibe for Valentine's Day-she was getting kind of uninterested in sex, so I thought that might spice things up some. She didn't take as much interest in it as I thought she would, but she does like it. She puts it directly on her clit when we fuck-either she sits up on the table in the bathroom and I fuck her face to face with me standing up, or she stands and bends over with her elbows on the table and I fuck her from the back and she masturbates her clit with it while I thrust into her from behind. She moans unusually loud with this guttural groan when she gets close to orgasm and gets this unusually painful look on her face when she's close and when she orgasms, so I know it's doing the job