Don't know if I'm doing it properly?

So, I've just turned 18 and just started to explore myself. I'm not a virgin - I lost it when I was 16 and I know I can orgasm and I can enjoy it, and that I can fit 3 fingers in there - but I never did it to myself.. I've been dating my new boyfriend 3 months, and he's told me seeing his girlfriend finger themselves really turns him on, so I tried and I couldn't do it! I've been trying for a few weeks, I'm still getting sex so it's not like it's because it's too tight from time off, I just can't seem to so it, I can only get one finger in and then I can't seem to make myself orgasm, I can feel my finger but it doesn't do anything, but when my boyfriend does it I love it - help

 

This does not sound like something I would be worried about, different things turn on different people, the fact that you like him fingering you is good and I am willing to be he loves doing it. There are more ways to masturbate than just fingering, of course clit rubbing, toys the list goes on. Just talk about it and see what you come up with, I have a feeling you will have no problem turning each other on.

 

I suggest Orgasmatron.

 

stimulating the clit and the g-spot should help but everybody is unique