You could always send him an email? I'm sure he would write back to you. I haven't spoken to him in a few months but I'm pretty sure he still goes online sometimes.
I remember awhile ago when we were both in a topic related to sex (don't remember the exact thread) and you said something along the lines of that you don't give insights about your sex life on public places like forums. What made you change your mind if I may ask?
Freedom is another issue. For now you absolutely have to date someone. Not to make myself look better or anything, but if you pick me I will buy you one (1) beer.