falling for my boss what to do

right but you imposed your opinion on me, not the other way around

I make it a point not to assume things.


Her post makes it seems like she's definitely more interested than he is. Smiling and being nice to a person does not necessarily equate to an infatuation.

 

So quoting is imposing? well excuuuse me sister.

No you just jumped right to the 'homewrecker' part.

Flirting and not talking about his supposed fiance doesn't exactly sound like the dude considers himself engaged either. All's fair in love and war, ever hear of that?

 

he is 28
and im 23.

and i believe by now im far past the 'crush' fase.
im starting to have feelings for this person.

 

and ofcourse i might be more interested in him.
Im not flirting as hard as he is because im still in doubt of what to do or to respond to this.

and by mentioning smiling and acting nice i mean more than that.
it was just easier to write it like that

he always talks to me about my appearance and goes so far that he makes me blush (like that is his goal for the day or something?) he never stops until i have blushed or felt a bit uncomfortable.
and always mimicking my behaviour in a more cute way with silly faces.

 

Well you did ask us and we said what we think so if you go for it please let us know how it turns out, would be interesting to hear the out come,,, good luck.

 

Maturing means doing what's right instead of acting on your impulses. You already said you know pursuing it would be wrong... telling him how you feel would be pursuing it. Telling him it's not appropriate would be stopping it. If everyone in the place sees how he's acting, he's either okay with everyone thinking he's a cheater or just playful, passing the time. And imagine what they think of you... a young girl blushing for the older boss can't be taken seriously. Of course you're getting feelings... you're letting a guy you already look up to push your buttons over and over again every single day. You need to decide now what to do because he's controlling the whole dynamic. If he wants to cheat with you, it will happen (and won't end well). If he just wants to keep playing with you, it will happen (and make life harder on you).