Ladies want romance and a lot of guys don't be able to seem to deliver this simple gesture which is why I said guys suck. If a man wants to get something romantic for his girlfriend or wife for Valentine's day, it should be something sentimental/personal. Out of your league? Just even to have a little bit of confidence goes a long way. We're all human so I don't consider anyone out of anyone elses league.. you never know until you try. If someone acts like they're "out of your league" then that probably just means that person is high maintenance or too full of themselves.