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cause i'm really, really getting tired of craiglist and i live in too small of a town to go to the gay bar

 

hello everyone,

I am 33 years old and married. Both of us bi curios and we are looking for single or couple bi male - female. For me i accept single man but my wife does not prefer single man.
I'll share pics here maybe later i'll also share pics of my wife. We live in Turkey. We are waiting serious and honest people. By the way we are working hard, so we could not travel abroad. So please only people who can travel to Turkey. Thank you.

 

My latest self-designation; partially transman bio female who is a pansexual/asexual/monosexual. I might also be considered bigender, depending on one's definition.
I've been happily single since my last "ex" in 2010 when I moved to Thailand, attracted to everyone,
but can't go beyond initial interest before my conflicting straight gender viewpoints cancel each other out. That's where "asexual" applies.
I constantly get crushes on females, even fell in love with a transwoman, but still don't picture doing anything with them.

I was (enthusiastically) last married for eight years to a gorgeous bisexual male and we did it all-gender role switching,
group orgy fantasy play-but not in reality although it was discussed-costumes, mild S&M, a ton of fun.
He's where the "monosexual" comes in-I can be attracted to anyone but the only one I can actually picture doing anything with is my "ex."

But, both of us being androgyne, nobody wanted to either call the shots or to be controlled, so ultimately and I moved to Thailand to teach and do bird photography.
He came to visit me last year to try to work something out and even discussed forming a 3-some with my transwoman love interest-
an old high school friend I knew as a male and still lives in the US-but I wasn't willing to move back to the US with him.

So, now I'm happily single.
I still want to be in a relationship some day, but don't know which gender, or how to do it.
:sunny:

 

hi people ,

I'm a 16 year old , and I'm 99% sure I'm bi. The fact I get aroused over men and women was probably a clue . Anyways , hello !!

 

Hi! I'm Elmo, and I'm a female from Australia. I've just recently discovered that I'm bi. Well, I have always been curious and attracted to both women and men. But I've never followed through with my feelings and attraction towards women until a few days ago. I have a wonderful boyfriend and he's really open and encouraging about my sexuality.
I feel really 'weird' after engaging in sexual activities with the woman, who is also my good friend, a few days ago (we had a threesome with my boyfriend). Weird not in a bad sense. I honestly do feel liberated and feel that I've answered a question about my sexuality which I have wondered about for a long time. It's almost like the feeling one gets after having sex for the first time..
I was wondering how people felt when they first found out that they are bisexual. Perhaps it can sort out this 'weird' feeling I have..
Cheers!

 

Well , I'm only here because i was kicked from shybi-guys on the grounds of age. I'm 16 , bi and have had quite a few experiences in my time.Feel free to pm me

 

So, busy day in a job I long since lost interest in, kids asleep, wife asleep, nothing on TV. Would kill for a mate with benefits right now! Known I was bi since teen years but always sought to fit into one or t'other . Wife knows but seems to have forgotten! Big into gay porn. Alone. Must be guys out there in the same situation? Hi.

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Hi Paul from Sheffield. Steve from London here. Just joined the forum in the midst of a mini mid life crisis and noticed your posts (which are all a bit long in the tooth). Just wondering how things went? I loved your optimism and new acceptance of who you are. Did your wife come around? Do your sons know? I'm in the same situation. I did tell my wife many years ago in an uncharacteristic moment of honesty but I think she filed it under "inconvenient truths" even though she was quite accepting at the time. We have since married and had a son. I fell back into hiding and worked on that dual identity in private ;-). Now finding it difficult and isolating. Could go on but just wanted to introduce myself and ask how you were. Cheers. Steve ...... oh and I have a crush on Misha Collins. X

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Hey,
i'm a 18 year old male,
i recently discovered that I'm bi,
and i want to meet/chat people who are bi or gay aswell,

 

hey I'm bi 24 lives in south Florida. i diacovered i was bi by 18. iv been with a few guys and enjoy it. looking to chat with some like minded males and females.

 

A few times when I was drunk or high, I'd get really horny when I thought about men (I turn into a real slut when I drink). I slowly started realizing that I was bi. I like women more, and can't see myself marrying a man although I would definitely date the right guy. Gay sex just turns me on so much!

 

Hi everyone. I'm a 34 year old canadian male who has recently figured out I'm bisexual. I am passed the point of confusion and have accepted it as my truth, and feel much more in touch with who I am. I am looking to chat with like minded people and further understand who I am. Looking forward to talking with you all!


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Hi there.

I'm a bi woman (38 yrs old) who is in a very happy open marriage and have been for nearly 20 years.

I married my best friend (male) and we are soul mates, however we both need things sexually from other people (we have a fab sex life together - we just want more).

I live in England in Devon and would love to meet people of either sex who are local, for chats, hanging out, shopping etc.

 

Hi-- I'm Chisaki--bi-female in California. I'm married and recently found out I'm bi. I've been sleeping with our live-in Nanny while my husband is out of town. I'm still really confused and feeling a lot of guilt over what I'm doing.

 

I'm a married male, I live in Canada and enjoy being out doors.

Of late I have been finding myself attracted to men as well as women. I have experimented as a youth but I haven't been with a male since my teens.

I have only told one other person about this, a female friend as she is a lesbian and I felt she would not judge me. She has listened helped a lot. I still have a lot to deal with but talking with her I know I am normal.

I have tried to tell my wife but she became angry so I dropped it. I have yet to be with another man and want to so bad, but being married I don't want to do that to her.

I hope the forums here will give me information I need.

Cheers

 

Well welcome buddy,we are glad to have ya

 

Hello I'm bisexual ((31 years of age)) and involved in a relationship with my boyfriend ((20 years of age)) who is also bisexual. :sunny:I'm very happy with him and he's very open to so many things which is wonderful. Were not afraid to talk about anything, I look forward to talking to a lot of you, but of course only as friends cause I'm truly in love with my boyfriend. Always knew I was bisexual since I was 19 years old but didn't come out until I was 28 years old cause my step father is highly religious and strict in his ways. Look forward to meeting everyone on this side of the board.

And there's another side of myself that I'll share I love younger men and I'm dominate, I love submissive men and that's what attracted me to him besides his wonderful personality. Than after a few weeks of talking to him, he told me he was bisexual as well.

 

Im 33 yrs old and I have been bi for as long as I can remember. I recently became a widow. Lost my soul mate and best friend, my husband, to cancer. Came to NYC from PR looking to start anew. I have no children, didn't have the chance to, but I have 3 beautiful furry kids we were taking care of and now that I am alone I brought them with me from Puerto Rico and hopefully I can give them in the future the same nice life they had when he was alive. My pets are a dog named Lyra and two male cats called Vigo and Cyan and they are my #1 priority.

I live with my family at the mo, trying to sort everything out. One of the reasons I decided to open an account here is because I am looking to explore myself more and see it finding myself more I can properly heal. I want to meet bi people male/females, I want to make friends with people that understand more about this lifestyle as I am new to the whole idea of coming out and being alone.

All my close friends are straight. My soul mate knew about it and he was ok with it. My parents have heard me say it, but in the long run I have never been with a woman but I have been in love with one. I need advice and info on how to meet people and have fun with bis like me. I am extremely shy, one of the reasons I have never had an experience with a woman but I am friendly.

Happy to meet all of you and I hope to make a lot of friends :2thumbsup:

 

Welcome,welcome to our site

 

I'm 64, male, married, and I'm just discovering my bisexuality.

My only same-sex encounter was 40 years ago, in an MMF threesome, the F being my wife, to whom I'm still married. We gave each other BJs. Otherwise, nothing for years. But when I look back over my life, I realise there were many "near misses" where I deliberately turned and walked away. I suppose I knew I wasn't gay, and didn't want to turn gay, and bisexuality wasn't really talked about then. "You're gay, you're straight, or you're lying," they used to say.

I reckon I'm about 90% straight, but I'm now trying to develop the other 10%. Perhaps 70-30 would be a better ratio?

I recently met another man in a similar situation. We got on well together and have a lot in common. One thing led to another, and we hugged, we kissed and we played with each other's cocks. I was surprised at the strength of the emotion I felt: excitement and sexual arousal. It certainly didn't repulse me, although up until recently the sight of two men kissing disgusted me. I think I must have been a classic case of denial for most of my life. I was strongly against gay marriage for example. Now my eyes are being opened.

The funny thing is that I now realise there are e many married bisexuals like me. I don't know whether to tell my wife; actually she already knows, if she casts her mind back, but maybe that's something she'd rather forget.

L.