Same here. I have trust issues I suppose - just don't like being put in the control of others where I can't get up and bolt if I feel like it. Once when working at a psych hospital I was the volunteer to demonstrate 5-point bed restraint. Both arms and legs are secured with leather cuffs & straps to the bed, plus a belt holds your mid section from jumping around. TOTAL RESTRAINT! Even with the supervisor there and my co-workers being professional I was really ill at ease the whole time I was in the restraint and not in control of my own freedom. (It was worse than the time in the slammer). So, I can't enjoy bondage stuff.
Been tied up and blind folded. Best part? Being under gfs control. Her spelling out the alphabet on my cock with her tongue. Once she went A-Z she spelled out random letters for me to guess. Fucking loved it.
Never been tied or blindfolded. Dont know if I would like it altho the antisipation of someone leaving the room and what for is awesome. Been pinned down hard, thats kind of close but not like I couldnt regain control tho.. Like I said before, I am a fiesty one and I like to get rough so I dont know if I would like losing all control. Its kind of weird to some maybe but sex to me has to be earned, sometimes, meaning come and get me if you can. Other times its about cuddling turning into something more. I might look soft and sweet but something in me is a wild cat waiting to leap out of a tree at any time. Some guys might look at me and say they'd have their hands full with me,,, yup, its true. Run while you can. Hahahahaha
I stopped playing in trees when I started growing boobs. They would get caught up so it was better to wait for my victim under one instead, hahahaha
yes blindfolded and tied up very big turn on, especially when your partner has a few mates round to join in
My husband and I play tie-up games sometime. I like feeling helpless and being treated like "man property." :hide: He knows what I'm okay with and where the boundaries are. He also knows if I say "no" or use my safe word the game stops. Otherwise, it's big fun!
That would be real kinky, if you were not untied and blindfold removed, until after all his mates were gone. Would leave a big question, as to who they were.
I love being tied up and blindfolded, both. Husband handcuffed hands being my back, forced me to my knees to give him h**d. It hurt my arms, but it was so hot!!!