Am I A Terrible Person?

BTW, my "Do it already" comment was sarcasm.

 

Shit is already ruined. Before you get married again realize the difference between fantasy and reality. Your wife is going to find out about this and if she forgives you, I think you have more problems than you think you have.

 

His wife already lets him fantasize about it. He definitely went too far with it, but I wouldn't say that things are quite ruined.

He's hoping she's down with it (which is fucked) but I can't agree with you that he'll have more problems if she's the kind of women to forgive something like this. And who knows, she might actually be down with it...

 

Idk. I think the fact that she already encouraged fantasizing about it is a bad sign. This is way out of league. But it looks like some bad psychological issues from where I'm standing. Maybe I'm standing in the wrong place though.

 

hehe, I guess neither of us will ever really know what these two are thinking.

 

If your wife is encouraging and accepting of it AND the sister is obviously down then I say go for it. The human mind is complex and you can't control your thoughts all the time!

 

If they even exist. I've noticed that lots of new members come onto this site with an entourage of other new users who support and have extensive experience with their specific kinks.

 

Perhaps it is a fantasy of your wife's but she won't dare say it due to the taboo nature, etc...

 

So how do you find out if thats her fantasy without being put in the dog house....lol

 

You're indulging too deeply into this feeling.

Okay sometimes I get the urge to rips someones head off when I'm angry. Its a natural feeling but do I entertain it? NO! Why? Because its wrong - just like your fantasy.

So stop.

 

If your wife already lets you fantasize about it, simply ask during one of those fantasy sessions "how would you feel about me fucking her for real?" If she freaks out or says she's not interested at all, then STOP it with her sister. If she seems down with it, maybe you can work from there.

 

A Dick is a Dick it will go into any hole it finds opened.... All you need to do is tame it.... And stick with your wife. Unless your wife allows you to sleep with her sister!

 

This is normal man... thinking about women left and right. It's in our genes unless you've let the feminine side of society beat you down so you're scared of your own thoughts.

Anyways, this situation sounds familiar and I would definitely pursue it. You gotta be smart and take it a step at a time though. Do stuff like go down on your wife while making her talk about being with a woman. Another time, fuck her while having her tell you if she'd like to participate or watch when it comes to her sister. Another time, finger her while you both make a fantasy about her with her sister... if she's not comfortable with a les fantasy, start with a 3some fantasy. The point is... get her talking and thinking about her sister (or being with other women first if she's just bi-curious). Instead of telling her what you like, make her say what she thinks and likes... that gets her mind going and all the while you guide it where you want to go in the long run. After you've established she's comfortable with the idea of being with her sister, tell her you flirted with her some online. If she's okay with that, eventually have her sister send a nude pic to you and share it with your wife... her reaction will tell you everything. If she is eager to see it studies it, like it, you know you can make it happen. If she's taken aback and turns away in disgust or prudishness, you know the sister is off-limits in a 3some. Whatever you do... do NOT cheat. That's where all the drama comes in. You'd be surprised how freaky women can get when you trust them.

 

It sounds like you're more drawn to the drama than anything. You could have an affair with anyone, why the sister? I get the feeling you want to get caught so you can go off and just start getting it on with whoever you want.

You say your wife satisfies you, but something is off. Sexual energy, is creative energy, you're probably not doing something you're supposed to be doing. Go design something, develop something, or just redirect that sexual overload into something that won't hurt your wife.

You did make a commitment. Either talk to her, or talk to yourself.

 

:toilet: bunch of crap

 

I don't judge people (except meanies), but I think it's a bit much to have a threesome with the sister and the wife at the same time. Let's face it, that's gross. But I think maybe sister and wife at separate times, with the wife's consent.

 

What is all bad here is the deception and EVEN if the wife is accepting of this threesome with her spouse and her little sister...it's the gall that it happened behind her back with consent that is another problem even if it was a few dirty messages/ communications and no touching happened at that point .


Also how will this impact kids, (daughters, sons, a fusion of half-siblings and cousins)

It is all bad IMHO.

 

OK. My opinion. Fantasy is fantasy, and reality is reality. Most of the time they don't cross, especially if you're in a committed monogamous relationship.

One poster brought up easing your wife into a threesome with your sister-in-law. That's incest. Another poster brought up that what you're feeling is genetically normal, and he's correct. However, the idea that you can't control your thoughts is incorrect.

I can't tell you what to do, but why her sister? Can you imagine the possibility of jealousy, even if your wife was willing to try. You could ruin everything.

At best, you might arrange a threesome with another woman, but let me ask something. How would you feel if she wanted to be with another guy? How would you feel if she wanted to bring another man into your bed? What if she wanted to see you in a bisexual situation? How would you feel?

If you want something extra from her, she can want the same from you. Think before you act.

 

Sounds like you're just looking for your next sex high to me. Dude. Take a look at your wife. A good, hard look. Are you EVER going to find someone as freaky and well-matched to you as her? Is satisfying this fleeting urge really worth losing her? If you do this, where will you stop? You'll just want more and more exciting and risky until you get caught and lose her.
Don't think about how exciting it is to do something naughty. Think about losing your wife forever and destroying her and hre sister's relationship with each other. If that doesn't make you go soft, then I don't know, man... I understand getting what you want feels good, but if you do it at all costs, then as you said before, maybe you are a pig. Hate to say it, don't want to judge, but these are hard questions you need to ask yourself...

 

no one can resist fucking sisters. Ive done 2 pairs in the past. You can tell they like to give that much extra in bed to proof that they are better than the other sister, its just so horny. Do it man, you dont wanna be 67 and think: shit, my wife looks like shit know why didnt i fuck her horny sister when I had the chance?