Not sure how much you have read, but im assuming you didnt read all the pages. Anyway, my pair been grew and the confrontation happened a day or two after the original posting. It's over though. she gave her explanations, i gave mine and it was called a wrap the day after.
sorry to hear that OP. Getting cheated on leaves a scar that never goes away. But trust me you are better off, will find someone better, and will have a happier life. Good luck with things...