Married for almost 10 years, sex is good for the most part. My big problem is when she is on her period there is no sex. I understand her reasons why (blood, cramps, feeling gross) But sometimes I need a release. She tells me to go and masturbate but it feels kind of cheap to me ( I was raised Catholic, but haven't stepped foot in a church in years) I asked her if she could do it for me, so that we could at least share the experience, "make it more meaningful", but she has pretty much ignored my requests. ( in case any girls out there are interested I'm a Cancer she's a Gemini)....I'm horny as hell right now and I feel like I'm going to lose my mind. I need some help with this. I'm all around conflicted
i'll give you credit for realizing that zero guys give a fuck about astrological signs. and women still claim to be smarter than men...
the only problem you have is ''selfishness''....I don't understand what you want from this thread?..... you already know how to rub one out but think you are above that....haha...good luck is this a fishing trip to get some horny women into an online cam thing?///what do you want?
I'm a girl and I give zero fucks about astrological signs too. Believe me, that is the last thing she wants to do right now and you're selfish for even asking. Jerk it already.
Wow everybody, thanks for making me feel like total shit. I'm not trying to be selfish, I'm not trying to get any "girls on cam", I was simply asking for advice. I have a very emotional bond with my wife, it's the experience of making love and not just the sex hat I look forward too. If I go "rub one out" then I feel as though I've been selfish not sharing he experience with my wife, so I want her there to share it with me. I don't think that's being selfish at all.
Speaking for myself, anything sex related when I'm on my period is not appealing to me. I'd rather have my husband take care of himself than ask me to help. Asking her to help get you off when she isn't into it is selfish. If she were into it she wouldn't have ignored your request.
It's not that big of a deal, man. Really. If you want to get off, get off. No reason to feel like shit or feel guilty or anything.
It's a fact of life - some women just want ZERO involvement with sex during their period: and sadly for you, that also means even being really interested in you jerking off. She still loves you heaps, and the other 21/22 days I'm sure she's fine. She actually gave you the answer - go jerk off. It's just she wants no involvement at all because her hormones have turned off. .. So what's the problem??? Forget Catholicism, just jerk off next to her. However, make sure you clean up properly afterwards.
How can this be such a big deal? Just jerk off in the shower if you really need to, climb into bed, kiss and hug your wife, and go to sleep. It'll pass. Else, just wait. Really, just have a bit of discipline and save it all for her.
well, not in the shower. dry or lubed is fine, but water is right in between the two, in the dick-tearing zone.
Revvin' up your engine Listen to her howlin' roar Metal under tension Beggin' you to touch and go Highway to the dick-tearing zone Gonna Riiiiide in to the dick-tearing zone
I don't like very many Gemini women. Sorry if this offends, I just don't. Only one I've ever really liked is my aunt and its because she's blood- love her no matter what. Otherwise, I find them selfish, greedy, and self serving. Be up front with her. Tell her not to be a prudish **** and do her part in the relationship. That includes fucking when she's on her period. I'd probably be pissed off the minute someone told me that. But then I would think twice as to why they said it and try to change my ways. Or take her in the shower. Thats not messy…it washes down the drain.
oh diddums how sad. don't get to fuck for a week now and then. try for years and years on end. Move your thread over to the petty whiners section.
So what you really mean to say is "I never, ever get fucked so I don't feel bad for you having to wait while she's on her period" Got it
OP, I do understand exactly how you feel, though I don't know that I have any good advice sadly. When my wife is on her period, she doesn't want any part of sex or anything else for that matter too. And trying to use that age old argument of "Just because your broken doesn't mean I am" doesn't go very far. I've had my mini battles with my wife in this situation and discovered long ago to just go with it as it's a battle I'm not going to win. Yes you may tell yourself that even if you couldn't perform for some reason you'd please her all she wanted, but woman don't exactly work the same way guys do in that area, least most don't. If she's like most woman, she feels crampy, boobs hurt, in general discomfort or pain. Last thing she's thinking about is your Johnson or getting it off. So it's times like this you have to take matters into your own hand
