Hey guys im new to the forums and this is the reason i signed up here to try and get some advice. I have been going out with my girlfriend for almost 2 years now and we have been having sex for several months now and everything has been going great. However recently during sex and every nowand again when masturbating i have been getting thoughts about my girlfriends mother which has been very hard to deal with. It all started one night when i stayed at my girlfriends house we where lieing in bed and her mum came home with her boyfriend from are local cinema however they both had a few drinks at the bar not to far away from where we live. Her mother (sue) was very drunk and so was her boyfriend. They where extremely loud and seemed to have forgotten that we where in the house they both rushed up the stairs and went into her bedroom and moments later begun having sex. without shutting the door behind them so i could here everything that was going on. Around 20 min's later sue walked out of her room and towards the bathroom completely naked and out of her head so she walked very slowly and she was unaware that i was watching after doing her business she flushed and then walked back out of the bathroom and there i saw her in all her glory she was truly a milf, she is a spitting image of my Girlfriend only she us aged 37 not 19. Ever since this day i have had the image of her in my head whenever i get aroused i cant help but think about having sex with her. so should i tell my girlfriend about this and try and get it off my chest or should i bottle it up and hope these feelings go away over time ?
I guess it depends on the relationship but "Wow! You have no idea how bad I want to fuck your mom!" might not be taken so well. We would probably be able to help more if you had some pics of the mom for us to evaluate.
lol thanks for taking the time to reply lol but what i think u are trying to do is not help me out but to add another image of a milf so you can enjoy her for yourself. which dont get me wrong we all have are needs but.Why not help me anyway as this could turn out amazing and ending up as some amazing experience for me and her mother? ,maybe all 3 of us.
Well, I did post 2 helpful posts. Here is helpful post number 3.....unless you are willing to lose this girl...forget about the threesome. It isn't going to happen in about 99.8% of scenarios.
now that is some advice. I love my girlfriend from the bottom of my heart and i wouldn't want to loose her over something as little as this,however i don't feel as if it is fair on her lieing behind her back, picturing some 1 else instead of her especially when it is her mother ? And that was my original question what should i do. Tell her and hope me and my girlfriend have a long discussion that helps me get over this up session or simply do nothing and just hope in the future i dont do something foolish because i cant handle it anymore. And to make matter worse a awkward situation happened earlier on this morning.
You're over-thinking this. So you find her mom hot. So what? I find lots of women hot. And my wife doesn't even give a shit. She doesn't care when I say things like "Hey...you should let me bang <insert name of her friend>" But those people aren't her mom and the fact that you're thinking about the GFs mom in your fantasy doesn't make it anything more than that...a fantasy. Leave it at that. It only get complicated when you blab it to your GF.
The thing that I find notable is not that you find the mother attractive, that could be mentioned to your g.f. Even your attraction for the mother could be discussed. (No, I have no practical advice, just noting a theoretical possibility.) What I found notable was the lack of consideration that you showed that drunken night. "... without shutting the door behind them so i could here everything that was going on. Around 20 min's later..." and for 20 minutes no sober person tried to gently close the door. "... i was watching after doing her business ..." Spying on any woman, of any attractiveness, while she is on the pot is rude. I think that if you tell that story to your gf she will pick up on the lack of consideration that you showed to her mother. As far as a threesome. I've arranged these scenarios in descending order of probability. "Honey, want have a threesome with that cute stranger" "How about your best friend" "How about your sister" "Hey! Lets do it with your mom"
Thanks for taking the time to give me a respectable answer. but first i would like to make it clear i did not watch her on the toilet as she shut the door behind her. i only watched her enter and leave. And also the scenario i mentioned a little while ago made matter worse which is the reason i came back. me and my girlfriend where just messing around a little, nothing major she stroked my cock for a little while before starting to give me some oral. He mother walked in and saw it happened however before shutting the door and shouting out my girlfriends name she watched for a few seconds and when i turned and i had notice the door had been opened and she was standing there.