I've had some girls really like when I put my finger in her ass during oral sex. I start gently, on the outside, and make sure my finger is nice and wet. It seems to be really hot for her, and help her to come harder. My question though...are there times when this would feel uncomfortable or embarrassing? I would think there would be. Would you let him know, or just try to get into it anyway?
Alright, Imagine...I'll check back in on this thread periodically, because I also want to read some girl writing, "Well, let's see, every time I happen to have a finger up MY ass..."
My boyfriend tends to make his way to my ass during sex or foreplay and whatnot and it sometimes gets a bit uncomfortable, but embarrassing? No. I guess that's because my boyfriend and I are very comfortable with each other and have no problem with things that other couples would find embarrassing. Anyway, when it is comfortable, I either tell him it's uncomfortable or I just let him continue...depending on exactly how uncomfortable it is. I usually don't have that little problem tho.
My husband put his finger in my ass for the 1st time and I loved the feeling of it!! I love having my pussy played with and him fingering my ass at the same time. What a great time! Now he is doing it everytime we have sex. I am thinking of getting an anal started kit and see if he is into it.
Just out of curiosity, how long have you been married for ? Did it shock you at first when he tried this for the 1st time he ever did it ?
Finger in botty? - That's cute. It means as a couple you are starting to explore the fuller range of options that our bodies offer. Have you let her do the same to you??? let it happen Just enjoy your bodies and their wonderful secrets to the fullest.
My Hubby put his finger in my ass for the 1st time and I loved it. I think he was surprised and I said I was enjoying him playing with my ass hole. It was amazing! Now I hope every time we have sex that he plays with my ass hole. If I get unconformable I tell him to stop he will or sometimes he needs to put more lube there and make it way better!
It feels so good. It kinds of throws my arousal to the next level. I can't remember ever finding it bad. If a man would try to stick his finger in my ass and, for some reason it'd be uncomfortable, I'd tell him, but I wouldn't make a big deal of it. I'd let him know I love it, but not that day. If I had a stomach/intestine upset, I'd tell the guy to leave it alone.
Embarrassed no never had that feeling however uncomfortable sure it happens. The only time it's uncomfortable for me is when my man is fingering my ass and he thinks it's lubed plenty but meh no it definitely needs some more. Ow and nails! I love pain but the pain of a man with his nails not neatly trimmed can be very uncomfortable going in and out of your ass. It's very delicate! Sometimes though I'm heavy into it and don't think to say anything however I certainly will afterwards (in a sweet loving way)
