if you don,t like patchouli smell, maybe it's because you don't smell good essential oil. A little scent of patchouli craze a lot of girl, but you can also stay like you are. You know, the men scent is really aphrodisiac ...
i think you're on the right track with the no cologne thing. i don't like cologne or perfume. bodysprays r ok. i just like the natural smell on men. espeically the right out of the shower smell. i think that's enough unless you're all sweaty or somethin but then sometimes that's sexy too.
Man... that's rank! Tell him to wash is freak azz! I hope the ladies don't like smelly men. What's is up with that!? Maybe she doesn't was either. That's just nasty and asking for trouble. Matt