How to tell a girl you want to go down on her?

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by Ironcore, Dec 26, 2004.

  1. mary0229

    mary0229 Member

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    I think that if you begin to go down slowly she can understand. Kiss her tummy to give her the taste that you go lower. If she don't want she gone to react.
     
  2. browneydgrl

    browneydgrl Member

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    ya know, the first time my bf went down on my, he didnt ask, he just pushed me back gently and slid down my body...its not hard for a girl to get the idea, and unless there's a reason she doesnt want you there (and usually the reason is not about you, but her...think yeast infection or period), its definitely appreciated. if she doesnt want u there simply because, she probably hasnt had anyone go down on her and some girls are very insecure at first. just reassure her that you enjoy it as much as she will and all should be well.
     
  3. clockworkorangeagain

    clockworkorangeagain femme fatale

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    id dint read reast of threads but i thought i would share this story....a housemates friend was over once and i could tell he like me...he is ten yrs older and i am def not sexually attracted to him... i was making something in the kitchen and he followed me in and told me he would really like to give me head...like really like to, and that he doesnt want to have sex because he thinks more of me than that, but just the head and it will be the best head of my life...
    i asked him if he was serious.
    he said yes..
    i said sorry no thanks.
    eww...shudders...my partner at the time thought it was funny..ewwwey
     
  4. paix

    paix Senior Member

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    I agree with the "just do it crowd"

    I've never had a guy ask, and definatly do not mind, lol.

    but please, keep your teeth out of the equation, and definatly don't do the tounge flicking thing, does not feel good (atleast to me)
     
  5. drbeaker

    drbeaker Member

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    I would say start kissing way up high and just slowly get lower and lower always making sure she seems comfortable with what you're doing. I don't know how to explain it any better than that, sorry
     
  6. NaykidApe

    NaykidApe Bomb the Ban

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    Spill something in her lap and say, "Oops. let me get that for you".
     
  7. BrokenHunny

    BrokenHunny Member

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    lol my bfs never had to ask becuase i would make them do it
     
  8. Nightenchantress

    Nightenchantress Member

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    AMEN!!!!

    but yea, just tell be hot and sexy about telling her that you want to taste her. Tell her what you want to do with her.

    If she slaps you, she doesn't want you to.

    If she throws you on the bed and rips her pants off, she wants you to.
     
  9. drumminmama

    drumminmama Super Moderator Super Moderator

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    first time: actions DO speak louder than any words..after that you use the "i couldn't get enough of you" type lines and a bit o' mutual pleasure wouldn't hurt.
    she's concerned about her own cleanliness? Hit the shower together...wash her hair...she'll be putty in your hands and lips.
     
  10. BlackGuardXIII

    BlackGuardXIII fera festiva

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    Pretty much what worked for me last time. I looked her square in the eye, and with an air of expectant optimism asked, "Can I go down on you?"
    She nodded..............
    nuff sed.
     
  11. i'm_not_beethoven420

    i'm_not_beethoven420 Member

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    I usually say something like, " Pull your legs up, i want to lick you"
     
  12. sm0key42o8

    sm0key42o8 Senior Member

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    I want to taste your sweet pussy... But dont say anything just do it...
     

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