I think that if you begin to go down slowly she can understand. Kiss her tummy to give her the taste that you go lower. If she don't want she gone to react.
ya know, the first time my bf went down on my, he didnt ask, he just pushed me back gently and slid down my body...its not hard for a girl to get the idea, and unless there's a reason she doesnt want you there (and usually the reason is not about you, but her...think yeast infection or period), its definitely appreciated. if she doesnt want u there simply because, she probably hasnt had anyone go down on her and some girls are very insecure at first. just reassure her that you enjoy it as much as she will and all should be well.
id dint read reast of threads but i thought i would share this story....a housemates friend was over once and i could tell he like me...he is ten yrs older and i am def not sexually attracted to him... i was making something in the kitchen and he followed me in and told me he would really like to give me head...like really like to, and that he doesnt want to have sex because he thinks more of me than that, but just the head and it will be the best head of my life... i asked him if he was serious. he said yes.. i said sorry no thanks. eww...shudders...my partner at the time thought it was funny..ewwwey
I agree with the "just do it crowd" I've never had a guy ask, and definatly do not mind, lol. but please, keep your teeth out of the equation, and definatly don't do the tounge flicking thing, does not feel good (atleast to me)
I would say start kissing way up high and just slowly get lower and lower always making sure she seems comfortable with what you're doing. I don't know how to explain it any better than that, sorry
AMEN!!!! but yea, just tell be hot and sexy about telling her that you want to taste her. Tell her what you want to do with her. If she slaps you, she doesn't want you to. If she throws you on the bed and rips her pants off, she wants you to.
first time: actions DO speak louder than any words..after that you use the "i couldn't get enough of you" type lines and a bit o' mutual pleasure wouldn't hurt. she's concerned about her own cleanliness? Hit the shower together...wash her hair...she'll be putty in your hands and lips.
Pretty much what worked for me last time. I looked her square in the eye, and with an air of expectant optimism asked, "Can I go down on you?" She nodded.............. nuff sed.