Tonight I found out that the girl I have liked for years has a fuck buddy who is way older than we are. I cannot believe that I went from liking her so much to the thought of her making me depressed. The thing is I know I shouldn't feel this way. I am just in so much pain right now.
Are you guys actually dating or you just "like her?" Maybe you never thought of her as the kind of girl to have an older fuck buddy but maybe she needs some good sex. Who knows, if you step up to the plate and maybe start doin stuff with her she might ditch the older guy. Or not.
He had the balls to obviously go for it, you didn't. You should have said something, as wrong as it is. I will admit this, old guys and young girls creep me out.
Most people are hypocrites. It's ok, we can't help our emotions, it's like if I believe euthanasia should be legal but then don't want an old relative to ask for it. If you don't like dirty girls you have to search harder.
good for her, older men are hot and they know how to treat us in and out of bed , some guys should take lessons from older grey hair super lovers
There is nothing wrong with a chick having an older fuck buddy, it means she doesn't want a relationship with him.. Duh, so that means you have a chance to steal her heart. Although this is an old thread.. But you would want a chick that has been in a comfortable sexual relationship with an older man, she will be more experienced and know what she wants more than a chick who hasn't. Most guys in the 17-23ish range think they know how to fuck a woman, then they learn that they need to pleasure a woman. When you get there you will find out eace:
Glad to say I am an old grey haired super lover. Sex is waaayyy better now than it was 20 years ago for me and my wife. Practice makes perfect. I just love giving the little woman those sheet clutching, lip biting, back arching, thigh quivering orgasms....one after another.....after another.....after another.
It's natural to be bummed when you find out that someone you like is not available. BUT...you are morphing your emotionality/frustration over the fact that you are not the fuck buddy into a morality flaw on her part. If the "fuck buddy" was you, would you still be bummed that she was "that type of girl." Anyway, unrequited love is really painful, so I'm sorry for your hurt. But try to remember that this girl has done nothing immoral and nothing to hurt you. I suspect that if she knew, she would feel badly that you feel the way she does. Still, what can you expect her to do if she just doesn't feel this way about you and wants to pursue something else.
I have some grey hair if that's your thing. But you have a shaved pussy which isn't my thing. Your tits may be enough to make up for that however, maybe.
I first noticed my pubes going grey when I was about 14. The hair on my head was showing serious signs of greyness by the time I was 13 so it wasn't long after I had first developed pubes that I started to shave them. I decided it was better to remain smooth than have it look like that, and apart from 6 weeks every year (Valentine's Day to my Birthday), when I let them grow, in order to remind me of what they look like & to check on their tonal progress, I keep them shaved once a week.
