I think everyone is slightly gay weather they have discovered it or not. I didn't discover I was bi until highscool, and didn't admit it to myself until quite recently.
I don't agree with that, because i would love to be sexually attracted to women and am not in the slighest, i think they're beautiful but i'm not sexually attracted. being completely gay is in the minority I think, but if you look at the sexulity scales, while many people will be in the middle there are still people at ethier end S
Hah you can't become gay. Research has shown that people have chemical imbalances in their heads that make them gay or something like that. Maybe I are wrong, but I don't believe that you can become gay.
Hey... I hope this doesn't offend anyone. I'm just curious about homosexuality and why it exists... is it a conscious choice to become gay? Or was it something you just felt inside, almost as if it were genetic? P.S. I support gay marriage and all of that stuff.
It's definitely not a conscious choice. This is something that I posted on a different forum, about basically the same topic:
hey, Im sure some people will get offended. Not because I think what youre asking is offensive, but because a lot of people here overreact like idiots and always try to point people to old posts that asked hte same question and get all pissed at hte person who asked the same questoin twice. But anywho! Why it exists? Why dont you just turn the question around and ask "why shouldnt it exist?" ya kno? Theres not really a "why". Well, I guess if youre religious you might believe God created homosexuality to give guys ultimate pleasure, cuz God knows himself that sex with a dude is better than with a girl anyday. haha Nope, it is not at all a concious choice. There are straight guys who make the choice to take part in gay acts, but thats not them "becoming gay" its just a choice of theirs. But poeple who are actually gay dont choose. The only choice a gay guy has with being gay is whether or not he'll accept it or if he'll just hide it away. Its definitely something you feel inside, kinda sorta like it was genetic. For me, genetics with such things as sexuality seems more symbolic than anything. But yeah, being gay is something you *realize*, Id say. P.S. Thats cool thatcha support gay marraige and rights. P.P.S. You gay? ^haha
That is so damn true. I'm sure these two guys have summed it up nicely for you and like they said - it is not a concious choice. It happens differently to everyone, but one day you'll just start thinking..."Am I gay?" I remember I started realising because when I wanked, I thought of one of my friend's dads..Then I started looking up naked men and then started looking up "Am I gay?" things on the interweb. For a while it seems a bit odd, but then you just learn to accept it and your body follows. I think in a way, once I accepted and almost convinced myself that I was gay, I started finding vaginas and stuff more unattractive than ever which reinforced these feelings about my sexuality. Hope that made sense I'm glad you're not a homophobic tool. So many people are and we could really do without it. Thank you - you are a good person for that. You clearly have been raised by people with some great morals and values.
Yeah, one day after school they gangbanged me in the locker room showers. They were kinda shocked when I just got into it and dominated a few of them. lol what kinda thread is this?How did I become gay- was their a sneeze that I should have been watching out for. Someone close this thread.
i used to do meth and it makes me real horny! so one day while i was real high and horny, i tryed sucking a cock! i loved it and have been ever since!
I did know I was gay until I sucked my first cock and enjoyed it.Then he took his time prepped me and fucked me in the ass and gave me the biggest orgasm of my life.My man fucked me until I turned gay.He would not stop until I uttered I am gay know.I am 63.
i was turned gay when I secretly watched my best friends dad and secret lover fucking - it was so hot! they were in his workshop in the garage and i was looking in the window trying to find my friend! his dad saw me and was embarassed but i asked if i could watch cos i was getting turned on! he agreed and since then i have been into guys! i touched both of their cocks that day and they both touched mine, just playing around, no sex till a couple of years later