This thread's beginnings are ancient. So I don't feel too bad for hijacking it. Ms St James, you must have a fascinating back story. I'm sure we'd all enjoy hearing it! How did a Christian rock singer from Australia end up in a sex forum? Enquiring minds want to know!
A word of caution: I'd recommend changing your profile picture to something other than one of your album covers. Groupies = Fun! Stalkers = Big Trouble!