How can I seduce an older man?

Ok. If he approaches you, and you say yes, he will be the old guy who manipulated the young girl into a relationship. If you say no, he'll be the creeper.

If you say, "hey, let's have sex!" then he's the man who was seduced by a younger woman. If you're pretty sure you both want to be together, the best option is just to tell him. i would avoid just grabbing him anywhere, though. However, a sudden kiss might not be unacceptable. Then you have the option to apologize profusely and run off, pretending it was all a momentary urge, should it go poorly!

 

What's wrong with "hey do you want to hang out sometime?" "Do you want to catch a movie with me?" "Wanna grab some dinner?" "We should hang out, I like you."

You sound like you're not a trashy whore, so don't act like one Just say what you feel, and don't cross social lines, don't grab him or kiss him out of nowhere, you wouldn't like that and chances are neither would he. Plus if he declines when you ask him nicely, it's no big deal, but if you've just grabbed his junk it's a lot more awkward for you.

 

^^Then he might think she wants a relationship.

 

Young lady you are putting way too much thought into this.
Guys need sex to feel loved, women need love to want sex. Period!
I have never had a horny girl that was unsuccessful in getting me to have sex with her.
It may not have always been love, but there was always some mutual attraction and affection. Remember this PASSION is the most attractive attribute that a sex partner can possess.
If you show some interest this guy will follow through. If you get naked you will have sex. How good it will be depends on the atmosphere, physical setting, time constraints etc.
This is simple, plan your work then work your plan.
Good Luck!

 

just try to get to know him... when you see him, talk to him, ask him questions, etc. when you feel comfortable, ask him to have coffee or meet at a bar. he'll soon figure out you're interested.

 

According to another thread all you do is stand in front of him

 

:rofl:

 

another thread? that's just conventional female wisdom in general. if you really want to seduce him hard, you can even touch your hair, or glance in his direction at some point.

 

Ask him if he feels it is only the man's place to make sexual approaches, or if this is truly the age of equal opportunity. That should break the ice & he should take the hint at that point.

 

So. ! I got Excited ! Did you get him yet ?
Arny

 

I have to ask, you said you're in your twenties, if late twenties, yes maybe there is a sincere match there, but if you're just into your twenties, forget it. He is way too old for you no matter how handsome he is. I've had a sincere crush on Kenny Rogers all my life, but there is no way I would approach him even if he was single. Very rarely do these relationships work out and I know even I am struggling at times being 4 years older than my fiance

 

You really shouldnt mention that at all, Kenny Rogers is 75

Regardless of whether or not you would do anything, just admitiing you are crushing on guys 50 years your senior, how do you think that makes things really sound between you and your fiancee?

 

Oh for pete's sake it doesn't make it "really sound" anything! Having a celebrity crush does not impact her relationship with her fiance at all.

 

thanks Sassy........... I never knew how old he was when I first saw him on an album cover that must have been 20 years old even then lol.... even my mum, she still thinks Cary Grant was the most desirable guy ever......

 

Yeah, thats it, focus on the celebrity part, not the 50+ year gap part, then like each others posts and support each other in the denial.

I'm just saying, she shouldnt let on to the fiancee she's up for a bit of sweet loving with the crusty old teabags until she gets that ring on her finger, or since she's aussie, 12 months after that and past the annulment stage

 

Your delusions are so amusing! :sunny:

 

VG.... you're weird... why do people always think that having a bi-sexual relationship actually involves sex? It can be other things, like just hanging out with your girlfriends, the odd kiss here and there, and talking, lots of talking, which 99.999% of males, even the best of them fail to be able to do on our level. Secondly, why is it wrong for a young woman to have a movie star crush, but if a young guy talks about how he would love to screw Demi Moore, no one objects or even notices?

 

because otherwise it's just a friendship?

most males would consider avoiding girl-talk to be a success rather than a failure.

i don't know what young guys you're talking to, but demi moore is pretty gross at this point.

 

In have had so many fantasies of being seduced by a young woman as young as 20 or about that age.
I guess the thought of having sex with someone that age would make up for not having sex with one when I were that age myself. I use to make new years resolutions often at that age & in my teens of having a girl friend to love & to socialise with rather than getting about as a lone guy with no girl to be able to hold & kiss & to go places with.
I only had guys as friends in my late teens & often wished a nice girl would come into my life & show me she liked me to. That never happened until I were in the my early 20's. Sometimes think I didn't make the ideal choice but do other times.

 

this..though just up and grabbing his cock may not be the best way to go. Personally I don't like just being randomly groped like that (yes I'm a guy.) And even if an extremely hot girl did it it would be a turn off.

that said..men DO like it simple. don't just up and grab his junk but be straight forward....some flirting is nice but don't take it too far and don't try and deflect anything.

Compliment him on how attractive you think he is and if you're really bold tell him he makes you horny. That will tell you if he's interested or not.

if you can gather up the courage just flat out tell him you find him extremely attractive and would love to have sex with him

 

for gods sake... but whatever.

men dont like games, and you just want a fuck anyway. just keep it simple, tell him youre interested in him. NSA.

again, men DONT LIKE GAMES AND BS. keep it simple, no drama