So, my missus and I have been together close to 5 months now, I know it's a short time but we had been friends a couple months before actually getting together. Here's my issue, when we first got together, I was the shy nervous one having not been with a woman before, so naturally she took the lead, it was like this for the first little while, but ever since I came out of my shell alot more and have discovered my sexual side it seems like her initiations have dropped off to nothing. She tells me she's always in the mood, and I can attest to this, if I initiate she usually never turns me down, but this is beginning to make me feel like nothing more then a conquest, sort of? Break in the shy/innocent one and now I am like she's lost interest. It'd just be nice to still feel wanted etc, she's told me she's a bit of an addict, but well lately I feel more of the addict then she is and I don't really enjoy the feeling. Hard to express really what I mean but I hope someone gets the point and has some suggestions, and yes I know the 'talk to her about it' is the popular answer, but I've tried, she just shrugs it off or tries to turn the blame onto me some how, so I'm at a loss.
Tell her you'd appreciate it if she initiated or made the first step sometimes. You should discuss your feelings. She probably doesn't want to seem clingy. You should also let her know that you feel unwanted, even though she doesn't turn you down. What do you mean by "she tries to turne the blame onto you"? Could you give me an example?
