I started having sex only few months ago ... I don't really like being on top first because I feel a pressure in my lower stomach, and second because I can't really move and know when to move faster to satisfy my partner ... is it normal?? (I am female)
We all have our favourite positions and positions that were not to keen on. Nothing wrong with not liking a position you find uncomfortable.
It took me a long time and lot of practice to figure out how to make it feel good on top and be comfortable. I used to get on top but lean forward to my face was by his, and then move back and forth that way...I don't know if that will help you or not.
That would work, thanks - I don't like to sit on him, I can't figure how to move right ... so uncomfortable, but sometimes he asks me to be on top and I am so lazy
Get a firmer bed. Cushy beds are hard to work with. For me, anyway. Or, while you're on top, face away from him. It feels better and it's easier to do. Tell him to be more vocal if you can't figure out when to speed up just by his actions.
I like to face the other way if I am on top. So he is looking at my ass. It's more intense for me this way.
I agree. You have got to mix things up. There are plenty other places on your body he can kiss. You should not have access to each others mouths at all times. It's going to get boring...but that's just my opinion.
I have a lady friend who has the same problem when she tries to sit on me. She says the pressure is pretty intense when she tries to take all of me in, but once she's wet enough it gets easier but has to be careful or she'll bleed a little ( I have a little girth going on, lol. )
me on top is definitely my favorite because I have all the control about speed and how deep to take him
My wife prefers laying on top of me face up with me entering her the way she likes. Its not my favourite sexual intercourse position thou.
