I'm a weird girl. Maybe it's a self-esteem issue, but I don't like flirting and compliments much. However, I enjoy cat calls and ass grabs. Women "generally" find those sorts of things offensive, demeaning, objectifying, etc. I just think it's a fun fleeting way to be called sexy that doesn't require response or reciprocation. So I was driving by this dude I thought was sexy and I totally thought about hollering out the window at him. It made me wonder if a guy would find that cheap and lewd or if it might just boast his confidence for the moment. What do you think?
Also guys, keep in mind that the source of said cat call may likely be someone you have any sexual interest in whatsoever. Most of 'em I've gotten have been from truckloads full of Mexicans on their way home from a hard day of dirty labor.
I just got a hilarious visual of a group of female construction workers cat calling a man walking by. Lulzy.
I assume it's a cocktease and move on. Not big on it. It can get pretty annoying if it goes on and on.
Yeah, but any woman that says hello and doesn't drop and give you a blow job immediately, is a cocktease to you! :biker:
I've been catcalled by girls. Whether someones likes it or not I think depends on the context of the situation. If done by a stranger, it might be a number of reactions from unnerving to flattering to annoyingly tacky. Some more conservative males, might be offended regardless of contacts. Others might be catcalled as a half-joke by someone they know and it is all in good fun. ----- I will say this though, being catcalled in no way implies an emotional attachment, it only communicates that you are physically appreciated by whomever did the catcall. So in that sense, if one is looking for something serious like a relationship, being catcalled by someone might cause them some apprehension and doubt to consider them seriously if they were looking for something more than the physical. My view is that it can be cheapening, and it better not happen in public places where someone's kid might ask their parent why that person (man or woman) attempted to sound like a cat while looking at that other person. It should be a tempered behavior in appropriate settings.
Stalemate. I can relate to that, though. I've likely done a little bit of everything when I was younger. But, nowadays, I would only open up to someone if they held eye contact a bunch of times. I don't want to approach cold turkey. ------ Edit: Too much risk, low reward for how many times I've had casual sex in life. I can understand my having done that when I was younger, since every instance of casual sex was still a big deal. So, the reward seemed huge.
