How do you give your boyfriend a bj/ handjob?

My boyfriend wants me to give him a blowjob/ handjob but i need help?

When i give him a blowjob i feel like im not doing it right and that i am humiliating myself being i cant do it for long because i feel like i am going to puke because i always choke! and that makes me tear up. lol but im not crying. Also i have puked on a guy before and i have never given a blowjob to a point where the guy cums...

So i don't know how to do it or im not doing it right? For a handjob i can only do it for not even 5 minutes because my hand and writ start to hurt reallllyyyyyyyyyyy bad and i also have never made a guy cum while doing this.

What should i do?

thank you all!

 

wow..that really sucks for him


pun intended


this is a great question because we all know there just isnt anywhere near enough HJ/BJ info available on the internet

 

gagging on a big dick in the best part..

now if your BF has a little dick and you still gag, im sure it makes him feel alot better anyways..

 

Invite him over to your house and while he is there ask your Mom to show you. I bet he will be thrilled to have an expert show you how it's done properly. I'm sure your Mom will be ok if it means helping you out with a relationship hurdle, and it will give her and the b/f a chance to interact. Often Mom's and b/f's don't have a lot to talk about, so it might give them a common interest and something to talk about when you're not around.

Your Mom might even put in a good word with your Dad too. You never know.

That's what I would do.

 

:troll:

 

The first few times I went down on my boyfriend, I stimulated him most of the way but he had to finish himself off with his hand. It could be because I hadn't learned his quirks yet, or maybe he was just used to taking care of himself and coming a certain way

I usually watch some handjob tutorials to learn how to give him better handjob. you can search and find many of them on the web like the following:
http://cfnmhandjob.com/viewtopic.php?f=2&t=127&p=405&hilit=jodi#p968

 

I seriously love giving my boyfriend blowjobs. If you're worried about gagging and all that you should know that you don't always have to do it with only your mouth. Use your hands too, keep your hand with your mouth as if it's an extension. Don't forget about your tongue, use it too, they like it again the back of their dick and the head. Deep throating comes with practice, if you don't think you can do it then don't. It's more of a turn off if you threw up. My boyfriend likes when I use a corkscrew motion with my hands when I'm giving him a handjob. If he's the type of guy that likes his balls being played with too then go for it, although some don't like it at all. Just make sure you're gentle. A lot of the time you just have to learn what he likes and doesn't like, guys are different. Have fun, happy blowing!

 

Maybe you're a lesbian and the idea of a dick in your mouth makes you want to puke. Just a thought.

 

I've found that masturbation (mutual or otherwise) to be an extremely personal experience. By 'personal', I don't mean 'private', but a sensation that is something that is practically impossible to be fully mastered by anybody else, other than yourself - particularly in the final stages. In fact, in my own experience, I can only recall one other person who managed to get me to cum without my having to intervene - and even that took me by surprise.

I think it's just a case that every man has his own unique combination of required pace & pressure which is constantly changing in those last few moments, where he's the only one who can recognise the incoming sensations & know the best way to interact with them accordingly.

 

Some guys may be too big for some girls. But if you really like this guy you can probably adjust to him. Watch some videos to learn different techniques. Then practice, practice, practice. It may help to buy a dildo (rubber cock) to practice with.

 

There seems to be a spot on the underneath of the penis about 3/4 down the shaft that's hard and when I clamp tighter into this and stroke it or squeeze it I notice a dramatic difference in the guys expressions and also orgasm if you squeeze it at the right time he seems to ejaculate harder. So that's the side of the cock that faces you if you're on your knees facing him. I don't find the rest of the shaft to do much else and the next spot I intend to hit are all the white glans/bumps underneath the red ring of the head (I don't know the correct terminologies) run your tongue over those bad boys. I try and do a constant direction and not try to change it too much for quicker orgasm results but if you're trying to tease the guy then mix it all up so he can't focus on one sensation. Same goes for all else I find. The more positions you try and do, the more moves you try and make the slower the guy cums in my experiences.

 

That's interesting, and this is the first time I've heard of it!

is this true, guys?

and is there any way you can show me on a sketch or something about where this fabled spot is, please?