Is my g/f alone in being unable to prevent immediate orgasm from her partners?

Like most (all?) men I pride myself on being an apt lover. I take great pleasure in satisfying my partner(s) and I am blessed not to have had any problems with duration...I have always been able to withhold orgasm until I feel/understand that my partner is satisfied.

Until recently...

About two months ago I began dating a girl I'll call "G". We've known each other through a mutual friend for quite some time...and finally 'hooked up' the night we began dating. Before we initially slept together "G" told me (in a somewhat drunken state) that she has never had a partner last longer than 3-4 minutes. I couldn't tell if she was joking...she wasn't. We've slept together about 20 times and I can't help but immediately orgasm with her. It's not the result of her looks (although she is gorgeous) but rather how intense her own orgasm(s) and orgasmic contractions are. She comes quickly, and she comes intensely.

She says she doesn't mind...but I'd like to experience long love-making sessions with her. Her ex broke up with her b/c apparently he didn't feel much like a man. I don't have an issue with that...

I've had plenty of sex with a moderate amount of lovers (14) and I've NEVER been unable to delay orgasm before. She's had plenty of sex with a moderate amount of lovers (8) and NONE have been able to prevent immediate ejaculation. What's the deal?

Have any guys experienced this 'problem' or something similar?
Are there any females who have 'difficulty' in delaying climax with their partners?

 

check your junk mail, I am sure you get spammed a million times a day with products that will cure that.

 

If your not lasting longer is a result of her orgasm, it sounds like all is good. You're both getting orgasms, right? Maybe a couple of orgamsms before you enter her will slow her down enough for extended intercourse.

 

Hey man ..but that is gooooood! - my wife is the same ...multi-orgasmic, she orgasm very fast ..and she really enjoys sex. She is very uninhibited about that and I enjoy. With her, I cannot show mu manhood ... she manages to have me off in seconds if not minutes. Any questions?????????????

 

Let me tap it...I guarantee I can last 5 minutes.

 

Ha ha ha ha.

 

Next time you sleep with her, have her give you a blowie first, then fuck her.

 

Oral, baby. :H

 

Think about baseball.

Like MikeE said, is this a massive problem in the relationship? Sounds like she'd be great for quickies at a party.

 

Lol, a party favor??

 

Spank the monkey before sex.

or

close your eyes and think of England

or

slow down a bit when you feel yourself about to cum

or

try all three

 

yes...I had a long term relationship once with a girl that had the most amazing pussy...she would get very nice and wet, but was still just soooo tight...when she got closer to orgasm, she would get even tighter...then when she came, the pulsing contractions in her pussy almost always made me come at the same time or very soon after...I asume this is what is going on with you, too and if you're both having big orgasms, don't sweat it...

 

If you both get off, then where is the problem? If its just that you want to last longer, do it more.

I've never had a guy last more than a minute or two with me either (which is why I don't like fucking that much), but it never seemed to me that they cared if I came. You seem to want to please her, and it seems you are.

Have an all weekend sex date, I bet you get to last a bit longer, and will be able to go for as long as you wish again, while at the same time bringing her off numerous times

 

i've had that as well, with women who are just so extremely orgasmic that theyre overactive orgasms would cause mine really quickly, however i suose i've had the advantage of not letting orgasm end the experience & be able to just go on for hours till exhaustion

 

I've had that problem before. I thought it was strange because I've never had any issues with being able to last. I've had quickies, slow sensual sex, and everything in between, but never had repetitive issues with a girl until I start seeing "C". I didn't think there was much variation in a girls "tightness" - I mostly filed that one under "stupid male locker room macho talk", but this girl made it extremely difficult to last longer. And yes, I know, i KNOW it's not all about lasting a long time every time, but sometimes it's nice to have control and get at it for a stretch of time. But I couldn't with her. She'd had a child, also, which was kinda amazing. Maybe it has as much to do with the minor variation of inner "shape" of a woman's vagina? I mean just like our sillyass penises come in various shapes/aspects that can pleasure a woman differently maybe there is some variation in thickness/tightness/etc in a woman's mysterious inner universe? I'd assume so. But yeah. I couldn't last very long with C and it was a minor (very minor) issue. My current girl is not at all like that. Hers actually changes a LOT during sex based on her excitement level (our excitement level). Makes it fun to go at it steadily for a little bit, but also when she's building up to orgasm in almost invariably causes me to come with her. Quite nice.