Bigger not always better.

I love penis(s) of all sizes. But I must say bigger is not always better. Small penis(s) are great for oral sex... A girl can get the whole cock in her mouth and suck it and enjoy it as long as she wants without getting tired. Some girls prefer bigger penis for intercourse, but a big penis in a small girl will some times hurt her.

 

Size is really irrelevant if they know how to use it. Also, if a lady knows her hip angles, big ones (up to a certain point..) won't hurt.

Why can't we all just agree that penises are cool. Size doesn't matter. Skills (from both participants) matter.

 

A NZ hardware store uses 'big is good' as its motto & everytime I see it mentioned I don't just think of ordinary DIY stuff lol

 

Size can be nice, but skill is better

 

Girth may be good for Straight, vaginal sex, but not so favourable for Anal. Long & thin is my personal preference there (although, if a penis is thin, the perspective gives the illusion of the length being greater - the same goes for one with a large girth, making it look shorter. Very rarely do you get ones of ideal proportions of length & girth).

Come to think of it, though, I wonder what the ideal preferred ratio is for penis size? This doesn't have anything to do with the actual size (so internet inches don't even come into it). Ratio would be given as Length : Girth ( in my case, 1 : 1 - overly generous girth, in proportion to average length).

 

I think the ideal best fit size is between 5-6 inches in length, and 4.5-6 inches in girth.
Consensus on an additional feature is a big mushroom head.

Why do I say this? I say this because that size is felt and easily accommodated by MOST women with minimal pain if any, assuming she's turned on enough.

There are plenty of women who can't fit 7in. or more, and that one inch might prevent the man from being able to grind his pelvis into the labia and clitoris during coitus.

So there are DOWNSIDES to being big as well.

Lots of pornstars are actually 5-7 inch range, only the camera angle makes it look big.
In porn where a girl is with a guy that is huge 7 or higher, you can see her flinch in pain in numerous occasions. Additionally, notice big dicks also have a couple inches unused during intercourse because it just doesn't fit.

 

Theres also the downside that some girls find out when hooking up with guys that have huge dicks. They get stretched out and become so loose that they can't get as much out of sex with guys that are smaller. I've known this to happen to certain girls, not from me of course, but they had trouble finding someone who could satisfy them after they broke up with the dude. Mainly because majority of guys aren't 11 inches.

 

Does the height & size of a guy mean he's got a small / large penis or has height got nothing to do with it ?.
I often wonder if a penis size depends on body size etc.

 

Penis size does not depend on body size, just like nose size does not relate to body size. Some is hereditary, other elements are random. Jon Holmes, who had one of the largest penises before he died, was 5'9".

Mine is 7+ inches, and I have bottomed out with every woman I have been with. Much bigger is surplusage, and only useful for anal sex (which I do not do).

 

Personally, irrespective of size, the type of penis I've come to appreciate most are those that curve slightly upwards (preferably) - although not excessively. I've also found this to be true in many women, as each thrust gets to stimulate a wider internal area.

Unfortunately, I can't claim to possess such a curved design. Nor is it angled in any way. Just straight out at a plain & simple 90 degrees.

 

I feel I am pretty average in this regard, but have as was mentioned earlier "the right proportions" of girth to length. Lets put it this way, I have never had any complaints either way. I think something that has to be said for everyones enjoyment is that all parties involved have to know what they are doing!

What is average anyway? I am just over 6"

 

IMO I've had better orgasms from lil vibes than I ever had on monster dongs.

 

Yes bigger is not always better and how you use it is way more importent! That being said and all other things being equal some just prefer bigger. That is their choice really and doesn't make them a bad person if that is what they like. Everyone is different and has their own likes and dislikes.

 

Big has always been a problem for me. It bumps too hard and has actually made me bleed. It can hurt too which then takes the pleasure out of fucking. I cum the most with the average size. Oh but wait! Big is really nice to look at.

 

For you big being 7 or higher in length?

To a point, discussions always about size, needs to stay away from qualifying terms like "big" because it means different things for everybody. And the topic of discussion itself doesn't really get advanced any.

 

I think it's because big dudes think that being big is all they need to be a good lover so they never develop subtlety.

C/S,
Rev J

 

Going over 6 inches puts you that much out of the average range.

 

I have an average sized one, and have never had complaints on that end.

 

Man, I just love a big dick, though. I like to feel it deep.

 

It always comes down to, "would you rather a guy be huge and terrible in bed, or smaller and great in bed?"

Why is it always the big dudes that are crappy in bed because they are selfish and lazy? Why is the smaller guy always the talented one? Can't the bigger guy be better in bed because he had to learn to be attentive to not cause pain, and the smaller guy be lame in bed because he can pound away without a worry?

What if the question that is always posed was, "would you rather have an average guy who is selfish and bad in bed, or a big guy who is caring and attentive?" If we have to handicap one guy in the scenario, shouldn't it be the big guy who usually just causes pain, or so the Internet would make it seem?

Or why does either have to be bad in bed? Passion, attentiveness, and caring are things a person possesses or does not, and are developed completely independently of ANY physical trait.

 

So you're basically asking for an apples to apples comparison when this subject comes up. Basically, when the size issues comes up, it really needs to be seen as the same guy, but with that one feature of size being modified.

Which would they like better, assuming same guy, same personality, same skills or lack thereof in bed.