Question about porn for the women

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by la Principessa, Jul 13, 2013.

  1. la Principessa

    la Principessa Member since '08

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    When I watch a porn video, I look at the women more than the men. I don't like to see that much of the guy besides his dick. And whenever the guy moans too loud over the woman's moans I'm thinking "Ew, shut up". I used to think this meant I might be gay but I get turned on by men. Just not in porn.

    The only thing I can think of is that I'm trying to imagine myself as the lady being fucked.

    I wanted to know if it was just me that feels this way or if it's common among heterosexual women.
     
  2. Jo King

    Jo King wannabe

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    It's just that men are not to attractive when they are having sex. My wife talked about how ugly they are in porn but loves the women in them.
     
  3. AngelAus

    AngelAus Member

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    I look at the girls a lot too and try and see what they're doing to enjoy themselves.
     
  4. calgirl

    calgirl Senior Member

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    Yep very much normal, speaking from a very hetero lady here. It's about the sensation that the she feels. That's why watching bjs isn't stimulating. I know what it's like to have cock in my mouth, and that it doesn't make me cum. The other day I watched a video where the lady had cock in her, got close to cumming, then took over and fingered herself for one squirting orgasm after the other. You could see her pussy contract and spasm....and blammo, I cum. It's because I know how it feels and that is very arousing and gets me there.
     
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    when I watched porn.. it would be Shemale on Girl or Girl on Shemale.. I dont like Men..
     
  6. la Principessa

    la Principessa Member since '08

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    Thanks for the input everyone.

    One time I tried to test it out so I watched a girl fucking another girl with a strap-on, and I actually found myself laughing because the girl with the strap on was moaning and I was just thinking "Uhh, you're not feeling anything, so why the fuck are you moaning louder than the one getting fucked?"

    It was just weird and I was very aware that the dick was plastic and not flesh. Not appealing.
     
  7. AmericanTerrorist

    AmericanTerrorist Bliss

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    100% the same as that.
     
  8. AmericanTerrorist

    AmericanTerrorist Bliss

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    hahaha I turn the sound off. can't stand the sounds.
     
  9. kairilove

    kairilove Member

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    I agree for the most part. I enjoy the cocks, and as long as the guy is not fugly they are a turn on unless they get too loud like you mentioned, or take up too much screen time. I would rather hear and see the girls reactions. Unless they are too fake :rolleyes:

    Overall Straight porn is nice but girl on girl is better, though I am bi so my perception may be skewed for you :)

    On a side note though there are some strapons that pleasure the top as well as the bottom ;)
     
  10. ohm~with~your~chi

    ohm~with~your~chi Member

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    Totally dude. I do the saaame thing. I like to fantasize about women too, but would never want to be with one really.
     
  11. la Principessa

    la Principessa Member since '08

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    Really? How? I wondered if there was something that might pleasure her but they showed her putting it on and it didn't look like anything was there.

    I hate the fake sounding moans too.
     
  12. calgirl

    calgirl Senior Member

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    I hate looking into the camera, biting her lower lip, licking her lips.....good god. I switch the vid immediately.
     
  13. enhancer13

    enhancer13 Senior Member

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    Yes porn can be really fake! These people don't get paid for their acting ability's. There is a reason my lady and I watch it with the sound off. As for the original question my lady prefers to watch girl on girl porn, but she is bi and that is something she doesn't get to experience near enough.
     
  14. kairilove

    kairilove Member

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    There are several styles, some have clit vibrators, some are shaped with a shaft that penetrates the top while wearing it, etc... definitely improvements in design :D
     
  15. la Principessa

    la Principessa Member since '08

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    Awesome. I'll keep that in mind if I ever do get with a girl lol
     
  16. chad1985

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    I used to watch a lot of porn with my ex-wife. What really got her off was watching the women's reactions when they were getting an awesome fuck. Also, she got extremely turned on when the women where having real orgasms, i.e. Cytherea. You can tell because their whole body contracts. Kind of hard to fake that with moaning and stating "I'm cumming" which is so cliche in much porn. She also liked it when a guy was fucking a girl doggy style and pulling on her hair. As far as the guy, he had to have at least a decent sized dick. Guys that were overly buff/tan/Fabio look/overly white teeth were a total turn off for her. Any other ladies concur? We also loved watching scenarios such as in Screw My Wife Please where the hubby watches the wife fuck someone else and they talk about it during the fucking.
     
  17. Sassygurl

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    Completely normal :)

    I'm the same way...when I watch porn I have little interest in the male...I like to watch the woman, I like to see her reactions and hear her...but if too fake its a turn off.
     
  18. creampie00

    creampie00 If you can't DODGE it....RAM it!

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    "One time I tried to test it out so I watched a girl fucking another girl with a strap-on, and I actually found myself laughing because the girl with the strap on was moaning and I was just thinking "Uhh, you're not feeling anything, so why the fuck are you moaning louder than the one getting fucked?" "

    --- this is so funny and so dead-on. Tells you just how phony some of those bitches can be. I do watch the women more than the men too, something is just hotter about that to me. It turns me on watching women have the cock slapped to them;)
     
  19. creampie00

    creampie00 If you can't DODGE it....RAM it!

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    haha, so typical. I dont blame you for switching. It's like....gimme something I can work with.....:)
     
  20. la Principessa

    la Principessa Member since '08

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    Yes that's exactly the ones I like watching. I was trying to remember the name.

    Yeah, I saw there was nothing there that she could be feeling. And it was so fake sounding so it's not like she was so turned on that she couldn't help moaning at the slightest touch. I might like girl on girl more if it were actual lesbians or bisexuals. You can tell these girls are straight being paid to do things to another woman. It's so not natural.
     

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