Just wanted some thoughts on this. I'm a straight guy, and VERY open minded, who from time to time can enjoy jerking off to gay porn. 90% of the time, of course, I watch straight porn, but there's that 10% of the time where gay porn just hits the right spot. My girlfriend is totally cool with it, as a matter of fact, I think it turns her on quite a bit. What are all of your thoughts on this? And if you're a woman on this board, how would you feel about your boyfriend doing that?
What A Load Of Crap, Your As Gay As A Row Of Pink Tents At A Boy Scouts Jamboree...:biker: Cheers Glen.
Gay porn does not do it for me but if it works for you and your girl go for it! I am straight, respect other people, and open minded but I am just not attracted to other men. However I do sometimes enjoy using a vibrating, anal t plug. If you and your girl can openly discuss things and both enjoy exploring new things you might ask her if she would like to use a toy or a strap on to "have" you sometime?
Yeah. We use toys on each other for sure. Usually also a vibrating butt plug and, once in a while, my Fleshlight. Maybe we'll graduate to a strap-on at some point, but we haven't done that yet. She's a cool chick, and very open minded about experimenting, so I'm sure she'd be down for that............best way to be I think. Oh yeah.....and also respecting other people's choices. That's a big one in my book.
Exactly Curious E respectful, comfortable and fun for both is critical. Sometimes the total role reversal is a real treat for both of us: she drives her car to dinner, pays with her credit card (which is funny because we have a joint account!). feels me up and talks crap while she drives us home . . . Basically she treats me like I treat her when we are in an especially playful mood and it works for both of us. You may need to invest in some mirrors or a cam because it is great to see the girl of your dreams/love of your life like riding you like a rented horse!
HA! Nice......."riding (me) like a rented horse". I have to remember that one. And I agree on all counts. I think we may try that role reversal thing. It's not something I've ever given much thought to doing, but it sounds like fun. I always love when my girlfriend talks dirty and she can always feel free to use me as an object. No problem there. Hehe.
Sounds like you have the trust and stability to explore things so let it go wherever it goes. And let us know what happens!
i'm a mildly bisexual man... when i say mildly bisexual, i mean that the vast majority of the time, all i care about is women. periodically i find myself attracted to a man, and on a few occasions i've had sex with men. ITS NOT A BIG DEAL it really doesn't affect my life in any way. and fuck the need to classify your sexuality. if you enjoy gay porn sometimes, you might not be completely straight, but who cares about the classifications, you are who you are, and you seem to enjoy yourself.
Gay porn turns me on a lot and I have had a boyfriend who would watch it with me. I liked to see him turned on by watching it. He had never been with a guy, but we discussed sexuality and he felt that he could not be entirely straight. A guy getting turned on and masturbating to gay porn is a plus for me.