Alot of sex questions from a socially awkward guy...

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by AwkwardVirgin, Jan 29, 2013.

  1. monkjr

    monkjr Senior Member

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    It's possible.
     
  2. AwkwardVirgin

    AwkwardVirgin Member

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    The dudes I tend to be attracted to are androgynous or look quite girly though...
     
  3. GLENGLEN

    GLENGLEN Banned

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    WOW, From Straight To Gay In Less Than Three Pages, This Has To Be

    A New "Hip Forums" Record...:2thumbsup:.



    Cheers Glen.
     
  4. AwkwardVirgin

    AwkwardVirgin Member

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    Wait...shouldn't it be straight to bi? :p

    But for some reason, the idea of sex with males turns me off. I just like how they look.
     
  5. GLENGLEN

    GLENGLEN Banned

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    Pull The Other Leg Sunshine, It Plays Jingle Bells...[​IMG].



    Cheers Glen.
     
  6. foresting

    foresting Member

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    just go with the flow! have sex with someone you care about, it will make everything much easier and less stressful for you
     
  7. AwkwardVirgin

    AwkwardVirgin Member

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    I don't even...
    Are you telling me to give it a try?
    0.o

    Don't I have to be sexually attracted to the person? I'm pretty sure I can't get it hard otherwise.
     
  8. Leila_xo

    Leila_xo Member

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    Gosh! as a woman i want sex to last a lot LONGER than 1-2 minutes :S
     
  9. BabySaule

    BabySaule Guest

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    Don`t overthink. Really. We`ve all been virgins. We all know sex is a mystery until you do it for the first time. So a normal person should be ok with you being a virgin.
    Don`t expect 1st time to be long and don`t think you should be an amazing lover. No. It`s the first time. You will probably cum quite fast. And that`s ok. Use a condom and don`t tell the girl you`ve f*cked a bunch of women if that`s not true because then she will wait for a good lover and will be disappointed. We know a virgin guy won`t bring us to heaven. :D
     
  10. BabySaule

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    Well, caring for someone and being sexually attracted to someone isn`t really the same.
    The reason why you should do it with someone you care for and someone who cares for you is-it makes it a lot less stressful. Because someone who cares for you will be happy to be with you, will be proud to be your first, won`t get all angry if you won`t please her and cum too fast, because that person will understand and will care that your first time is wonderful and as good as possible, with no stress.

    Unless of course it`s her 1st time too-then you should be the one taking care of her. Because it hurts to women.

    P.S. Sorry for grammar, I`m Latvian.
     
  11. wobs

    wobs Senior Member

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    babysaule dont worry about youre grammar!
     
  12. Pup_TeddyBear

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    In advance I'm doing this from my phone so if it is wrong I'll correct it later. Updated it. You're welcome for the answers. Also the ideas of finding someone experience I don't think that'll be a problem.
    My Gender: Unknown (Male)

    Warning some answers are for adults only.

    Case by case & up to "her". About 28% care, but it works both ways care that its to long or to short so take it as you see it.
    5.87 is the male over all average. Each race has thier own average. If you're white the average is about 5.4-6.0. In other words there is smaller so don't worry its all how you use it. for the record someone asked on hip forums how small is to small. The ones that answered 4.0 was the go on the for to small.

    The average above is including this question, but when asked as a separate question the average is like 3.6 give or take and matters about 1/2 the time (that 1/2 28%=14%) again to small or to large "can" be a issue. Ask "her" when there is a her to ask.

    Read above...looking stuff up is a good idea too, but people giving thier 2 cents is good also.

    I think you should come back here to ask this "if" or when that's a issue. A few ideas her on top then pull you knees up close to her head and spring up slightly. Doggy type styles. Cyber skin make a extender toy and yes dildo is another option, but understand they are often larger than most guys and after you use it she may prefer it.

    Short answer is no. There is 3 options to enlarge though.
    1 surgery in Japan (of course) but 1-2 inches isnt worth the risk.
    2 girth can be added by needles by adding fat to you, but muscle breaks it down after only a few times then repeat. Ouch..
    3 never Never do this in less doctor tells you to. Some pumps have been know to cause size increase, but like the others it has a problem. You said larger and lumpy right.
    Put simple no not really if you have blood flow problems then a few pills may help, but.. would those side effects include it falling off?

    Other than the first time its normally 5-8 minutes if you are just going at it. Then increases to about 10-12 min. Although every time is different. Its not a contest though. It's what you can do with the time provided. Oh and intercourse isn't as big a deal as other forms of sex are. For "most" girls 5 is enough. According to girls on questionairs (lie detector wasnt in use) I believe cosmopolitan had said this. If someone can quote me and source then please do.

    Yes that is about right. Again ask "her".

    Do you actually need this yet? Easy tech. Change positions often.
    2 Advanced techniques
    1. Has to do with squeezing the penis near the base I beleave, but you'd need to look that up. Works the best if she requires more consistency as the others require stops.
    2. The stop and start. Takes a bit to master, but it helps greatly if you are to sensitive during intercourse. Tip pull out if your extra sensitive.

    Kama Sutra is all I should say. Barnes and Noble can help here.

    Some a once a week some once a day. She'll tell you believe me if not then you need to communicate better. It's required if you want a sexually good relationship.

    For those of us that dont know!
    Phimosis: The foreskin cannot be fully retracted over the glans penis.
    Sorry for lucky you. You make about 1% of people that still have this at your age. Talk to your doctor about the difference of circumcised and uncircumcised. It is a option, but there is a few listed on wikipedia. get an updated list from the doctor. Circumcised tend to be less sensitive but at this age I wouldn't rush to this it'll hurt and your going to remember it. Sorry but I can't help you anymore than that.

    I'm sure she'll help you. Someone else did answer this one well.

    Foreplay: Is a set of emotionally and physically intimate acts between two or more people meant to create sexual arousal and desire.
    2nd source: Mutual sexual stimulation preceding sexual intercourse

    Umm. Till you can get sperm out. Not sure what you mean. I dont think anyone has surveyed this so the Norm time is unknown.

    Per day? For health reasons only and if someone (she) can't help you with it. Males should discharge sperm about every 3rd day or so, but some people don't even do it that much.

    Your age with out sex history once every 18 hours is about average but not if porn is included as this will normally turn you on and it will want its fix. That's the average go if your getting erections without porn added. Add about 2 hour between for every year of age. 18 would be 20 hours 19=22 hours meaning natural erections is slowed about 2 hours for years of aging till about 30 being about every other day. Not sure if that is what you wanted to know though.

    And I wanted to go to space when I heard about. That's normal human trait for most stuff. You learn then desire.

    You are doing it to much likely. Play some games try in 3 days if that doesn't help go a week then repeat. On another note. A lot of girls are turned off by guys seeing porn rather than them.

    I hope this helped you and everyone else.
     
  13. marquis_de_odde

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    Phimosis can be cured in most cases by using a steroid cream and stretching it back slowly in increments. Avoid surgery at all costs as it can desensitize your penis but if the cream and stretching doesn't work you may have to resort to it.
     

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