I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 2 years last month and I just gotta say that our sex just gets better and better! Especially this last year. We've really opened up sexually and are very open to trying all kinds of new things, bringing each others fantasies to life, etc . We don't live together and won't until we're married and only get to make love like once maybe twice a week. But still when we do it's fuckin awesome. Anyways what I'm just wonderin is if anyones sex life has lasted throughout the relationship and into marriage? I hear about how peoples love life fizzles once they got married. I'm just curious.
Your sex life is an indicator of your relationship as a whole, so it's not necessarily your sex life that fizzles ... it's the relationship that fizzles, and the sex simply follows along. Assuming that you're sexually compatible to start with, which it certainly sounds like you are, I think the key is to put your effort into keeping your relationship strong. If you do that, the sex will take care of itself.
I have tried to improve or spice up our sex life several times by trying new positions, introducing sex toys into it, new things we haven't tried before or I want to experience something different for a bigger turn on. I like to sexually pleasure myself in kinky ways when I'm alone or just take my clothes off & do what I feel is sexy.
