I don't like to wear them, but will if I don't know partner is clean.......not that that occurs very much at all.
that's common sense. i do it too. but i can't imagine anyone taking pleasure of the feel of latex inside their body. with one night stands it's okay, doesn't matter. but the guy i know and trust, nope, no condoms. i wanna feel the man, his flesh against mine, i want that flow of electricity between us. condoms suck, let's be honest. be smart and use them with strangers and some more dubious characters, but outside that they feel like trash.
I carry condoms in my wallet just incase I meet a hot guy that wants his dick sucked and I'm not sure about him. I've never had a problem getting a bloke to wear them, if they want my mouth/ass then they're happy to wear one. Guys who I know and trust I go without.
I guess, the whole herpes thing yeah? Ive never been a big fan of condoms, even for safety. Although once I was working for WMC & ended up with a box of promotional condoms & my partner & I decided to be kinky & use a few (if condoms can be considered kinky?). Ive been lucky & never caught anything I can't get rid of.
a necessary evil unless you are in a monogamous bonded relationship. Hate them but always insist if I'm being fucked. Neva with oral tho. Simon
should update this...since starting on PrEP two and a half years ago I leave it up to my top if he wants to use condom or not.....only around 25% do. Love it when they breed me and keep on pounding...haha Simon
I like them very much. I love that they fit snug. Also they decrease sensation enough to delay ejaculation for longer session
While I'd prefer not to use condoms, I now use them every time I engage in penetrative oral, vaginal, or anal sex with someone I don't know. I keep a few flavored ones for when I get the urge to suck off a guy who I meet in some casual situation. I know how to use my hands and mouth to get him off good, after sensually rolling a condom onto his erect cock. Have you ever had to spend time in the waiting room of a STD clinic, and then hear about the high rates of oral gonorrhea and several other STDs while you are being tested? Having been through that experience more than once, I eventually decided that if I wanted to continue having occasional casual sex, I would either have to limit it to mutual masturbation or use condoms. I do one of the other, if I do not know my partner. The alternative for me is giving up casual sex altogether, which I do not want to do. Some guys are paralyzed by fear, so they never "reach out and touch someone". They essentially spend their lives jerking off by themselves, in part due to the fear of STDs. Some guys think they have to say yes to unprotected oral sex with strangers, as some sort of badge of manliness, and then later find out that they have become a vector for STDs that can cause some long term complications for their girlfriends or boyfriends, without ever having any big symptoms themselves. Some guys won't have sex with you if you want to use condoms. So what? You can politely accept that and decline to go any further with that person. It's actually easy to find guys who are willing to play safe-- it's all a matter of talking about it openly. There is a good reason why STD clinics emphasize the use of condoms. AIDS is on the decline due to Prep, but other STDs are on the rise. If you want to have occasional casual sex, understand how STDs are transmitted, and play responsibly.
yes you're right sadly.....I used condoms for anal for 30+ years and starting PrEP two and a half years ago was glad to have the option of raw sex, but sadly, as u say, stds like syphilis and gonnorhea are on the rise and after two sessions of jags and antibiotics at my three monthly checks I'm reviewing my future fuck sessions. Nobody likes to use them but..... Simon
