Hey there im new to the forums butni was just wondering what I am doing wrong. I enjoy fingering my self and yes I am gay and I don't have sex toys or anything to use so I use fingers or carrots. I was using a carrot in the shower the other day when I pulled it out though a lot of poo came with it. It completely disgusted me and freaked me out and im wondering what did I do wrong to cause this to happen?? Any help is much appreciated as I went to get good at it as I find ut most pleasurable. Also what other household objects might work?
Its not terribly un-normal for things like that to happen. Um but food/house hold objects don't make for sex toys you really just need to invest in a dildo.
You should consider enema before anal play, otherwise things like that will happen from time to time, it's absolutely normal. I like cleaning myself out properly before indulging in prostate massage. Regarding your other question, try buying a proper anal toy, household objects hardly substitute for those. I personally prefer glass toys as they are very easy to slide in and are rigid enough for a proper prostate gland stimulation. You can find lots of those toys on the web for a good price. I can suggest a few good websites if you are based in UK.
Shit happens, literally. As Kook said, clean out ur ass & for god sakes stop sticking vegetables up ur ass... This will minimize & deplete the chance of any dirty surprises. How big was the carrot anyway?
I recently had the poop coming out on something I had in my anus & it was a bit freaky but that's what you sometimes have to go expect unless like me, you don't own an enema kit. As for other items to use: deodorant container with a nice rounded end cap for easy insertion, ice cubes, anything that resembles a penis or is not going to go in that it needs removed at doctors & makes you feel very embarrassed.
Easy, just make a batch of them & put as many in your anus as can get in & then it wont take them long to start thawing out & dribbling out. It feels strange but it's sort of kinky to.
That sounds absolutely terrible to me. I hate anything cold. I can't even do ice cubes on the nipples. I guess that would completely eliminate any kind of pain of actually removing the item from your butt tho (which anal beads have done to me from time to time), lolz!
I dare you just to try it once (ice cubes inserted) - it may widen your sexual experiences a bit more. It would be another thing you could say you have tried as a dare to yourself. I have dared myself do perform a few kinky things & have gone thru with some.
But I mean... Gah... LOLZ. I dunno, is it less cold just because its in your anus? I don't mean to sound like a moron but im just trying to grasp the concept here.
The heat inside your body gradually melts the ice & you then get use to it. Only those who are willing to try it, soon know if it's something they'd try again sometime. Its not something I do very often - just on a few rare occasions.
