There are a few women that cant orgasm because of medical problems . If you have tired ever thing , your finger , toys , reg. and oral sex, and still no orgasm , you might want to talk to a doctor . Some women take a long time to reach that state , you might want to give your self plenty of time . This is out side of many peoples belief system , but some thing you could try . Do the circulation of white light , concentrate the light in your sex chakra . A post by me on the now closed Pavlina forum . http://www.stevepavlina.com/forums/psychic-paranormal/68328-circulation-white-light.html http://www.aznewage.com/chakras.htm
I dont know if you fully understood the method I was talking about . You use the circulation of white light to build up energy in your chakras . The method I posted is one of many , they are easy to find on the net . The idea is to build energy in your sex chakra making an orgasm more intense . Circulation of white light /middle pillar/ L.B.R.P. works with or with out the words in Hebrew. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Circulation_of_Light_Meditation http://thefoolspeaks.com/showthread.php?t=553 http://www.alchemylab.com/circulation_of_the_light.htm http://www.angelfire.com/nc2/gransang13/circ.html http://akuahealingarts.blogspot.com/2010/01/circulation-of-light.html
Well, the only thing I can think of that would be causing the pleasure to just stop or causing you to lose focus on it would be medication side-effects. That's what antidepressants used to do to me before I got on a better combo of meds.