I must have a broken gaydar cause I can never tell if anyone is gay. Which sucks cause I'm actively looking for a relationship. I'm almost always attracted to straight girls cause I'm like "hmm she could be a lesbian lets try this out." lol I get shot down real quick haha. Anyone have the same problem of not being able to tell if someone is gay or not?
I have an AMAZING gaydar. I tend to teach people(like my friends and family) how to tell who is gay. It's my sixth sense. <3
I SUCK at telling who is Gay. I need to find out how to just be able to tell. I can tell on Guys but not on Girls and Girls is what I need.
Mine doesn't exist either. I end up flirting with straight girls who lead me on in front of other people and then, yep you guessed it, shoot me down when we're alone. I suppose my trouble is that I don't look like a massive dyke (except to my sister, for whom I am constant embarrassment) so they can't spot me either. :sob
Gaydar...Ha...That makes me laugh...I have absolutely NO gaydar what-so-ever...Actually, it's kinda sad...
Teach me! How do you tell if a girl is bisexual or a lesbian if her appearance is otherwise straight? Is it all in the eyecontact or what?
I so could use a lesson on this as well. Fill us in!! Im a girly girl for the most part but people somehow can figure me out.
I think that I have a pretty strong gaydar. Unfortunately for me, it doesn't work with women. I can tell right away if a guy is gay, but unless it's really obvious, I could never figure out if a woman was gay or not. Probably one of the main reasons most of my sexual partners have been men.
Girls, do you have tips on guessing if a girl is gay or not? What do you look at? Appearance, overall attitude, eye contact... ? We need help here!! LOL
I guess you have to read their body language with you and the people around them, as well as the things they might say or beliefs they might hold... it differs depending on the situation and what aspect of their personality shows up i think! A lot of straight girls still tend to be physically close to their friends, and just flirt in general... so not necessarily the best way to find out if they're gay. If you're not actually talking to them just in the same room and there is a lot of eye contact, then maybe you can suspect they may be interested? At the same time, they could just be thinking that you look nice [but only in a 'straight' way], or not even thinking about you... I don't go on nights out really so i wouldn't know what exactly to look out for or how to pull anyone. D: I tend to just approach everyone thinking they COULD be gay, so i act friendly, take an interest and hope it's reciprocated. I'd say my gaydar only starts working once i've learnt a bit about the behaviourisms of whoever i'm with. It could also be that maybe they are gay, they just aren't attracted to you and therefore don't show their 'gayness', which sucks too. If i was 10x more attractive, i would talk to more girls to help figure out what to look for!
