was this wrong ??

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by seliacc, Jun 22, 2013.

  1. seliacc

    seliacc Guest

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    Hey
    I have been married for 2 years
    first year was great
    2nd year became shit , my wife literally told me that she does not enjoy sex with me anymore !!
    last month I caught here sucking another man dick , the problem is that I love her
    at night I told here that I saw here , she admitted to me sucking 3 men during this year , I told here thats ok for me because I really love her , I didnt want to leave her, but now things got really over, she suck every man she sees, last week I came to our department I found her fucking another guy
    at night she told me that she was sorry and she couldnt resist his big thing !!!
    now I think of a divorce , what do you think ?
     
  2. desert-rat

    desert-rat Senior Member

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    I dont know if you could work this out , but it sounds like its over to me .
     
  3. Maelstrom

    Maelstrom Banned

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    Be free.
     
  4. seliacc

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    thanks , I really think the same
     
  5. seliacc

    seliacc Guest

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    well I am not that type of man who is that much free
    but I decided to be a little bit free just cz I loved her and I wanted her to be a mom of my children !! but I really cant tolerate this anymore :(
     
  6. Mr.Writer

    Mr.Writer Senior Member

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    She doesn't sound like mom material, or like wife material. And it doesn't sound like she loves you back. You can do much better :)
     
  7. monkjr

    monkjr Senior Member

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    I'd sue her for damages and begin the divorce proceedings. The fact that there are no children of yours involved yet is a blessing in disguise, although I doubt you see it that way right now.
     
  8. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    dump her and introduce her to me.

    well, dump her during the daytime then.
     
  9. nz male

    nz male Senior Member

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    Arrange for a another woman to come over when she' home & have sex with the visitor in front of her. Then divorce her.
     
  10. roamy

    roamy Senior Member

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    loose her
     
  11. seliacc

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    yes , I guess I cant live with her anymore :)
     
  12. seliacc

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    cool idea:sunny:
     
  13. JessieK0311

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    Obviously, she has no actual remorse for what she has done. Even after she kept getting caught! It won't get better...get rid of her.
     
  14. ClintonsSon

    ClintonsSon Yeah......it's Me!!

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    Sounds like you are a little slow to me! WTH is wrong with you? Dump her cocksucking ass....and while you are at it....kick her in the ass!
     
  15. ClintonsSon

    ClintonsSon Yeah......it's Me!!

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    Dump her ass for a guy....let her catch you sucking her boyfriend's dick! Hell...take a walk on the wild side!
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  16. enhancer13

    enhancer13 Senior Member

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    I would not stay with someone after the first time they cheated let alone multiple times! Someone who does that shit is not worth loving. Hell they are not worth spitting on. Get the hell out of that relationship as fast as you can and do not look back.
     
  17. deenalowens

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    This is silly. It will never work out. You need to be strong and respect yourself and move on.
     
  18. JimInPhila

    JimInPhila Member

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    Slow the roll everybody. Thanks to the web, we've learned that there are many "open marriages" out there and they work. And they've worked for years. Why? Because both people love each other. Realize all the "monogamous" marriages that are going down the crapper every day.
    Think about the former president who, in his mind, 'didn't have sex with that girl' because to him, having sex was intercourse. So, bj's weren't sex.
    It's quite obvious you've married a Cocksucker. That doesn't make her a bad person. That's just what she needs. Maybe that was one of the first things that attracted you to her in the first place. Now, she's a bad person for doing and being who she is.
    I've been told that marriage isn't a 50-50 deal. It's 100-100. This issue might be were you have to give 100%.
    Is she a loving wife to you in other ways?
    You "say" you love her but I believe love isn't love until you have to prove it. At the first challenge, you're ready to run. Seems like "My way or the highway."
    You say "I love you BUT..." Drop the "but" and you just might be a very happy person.
    Are you so insecure that you have to be the only person in her live or are you man enough to love "unconditionally"? Are you so perfect that you can demand perfection in your wife?
    Every marriage requires some flexibility somewhere along the continuum. If we keep to the rigid laws of society, no one will be married in a very short time.
    Is your ego in the way, are you jealous that she's sucking big dick? Is the issue really your insecurities?
     

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