I really wanted to know sth until now I had 2 sexual experiences , one with my girlfriend for 3 months, and other one with my wife( which I am gonna divorce soon ) , well to be honest I really love girl's as ( actually every thing about a girl :afro but in my previous 2 relationships, never had the gut to say : " I want to lick ur ass hole " , or just go and lick their ass holes, I licked ass from outside but never licked an ass-hole , so I am now meeting a new girl and looks like we are going to have a sex soon , but I really dunno if it is appropriate to lick her ass hole or what, what do girls think of a man who is down there licking her ass hole ??? and how can I ask her or do it ? do you think I should lick it in our 1st sex or wait a while ? thanks alot
All girls enjoy orally anal stimulation. If they say otherwise they are just playing hard to lick. Just go for the gold
well I have been really near the asshole of my 1st GF but I felt that she was uncomfortable and since then never tried it though I want it glad to hear that , I want the 1st step I guess
As a female, I'm going to say that I'm not really interested in anal stimulation. But if the guy I'm with has expressed this as a fantasy, then I would go for it. My parnter has expressed an interest in anal, so of course I'll go with it, but its more because he wants to. As for someone licking my ass.....I had a boyfriend 15 years ago who loved licking my ass, we never discussed it he would just do it while conducting other oral related business. I didn't mind that he did this....but really would not have cared if he stopped. It was ust sort of "meh".
Oh I see Sassygurl , did u have any weird feeling toward ur boyfriend who used to lick ur ass ? this is what I really dont want , if the girl who I am dating will have weird feeling or sth like this, I will just forget about this fantasy !
Before him I never experienced any guy having any anal fantasies/fixation....so I thought he was a bit weird for liking that at the time....but I was also more pruddish back then.....I never said anything to let him know I thought it was weird....just sort of let him do his thing and he didn't spend a lot of time on the ass licking part so it wasn't as though it made me uncomfortable. I would say talk to your girlfriend about it and see what her response is. It may also depend on her age and experience, I'm way more open minded now that I'm older.....and would not be weirded out by my partner expressing an interest in that area. Have a discussion about fantasies with her and see where it leads.
thanks alot for the advice, So I will stand by right now, I think I will discuss with her this thing after a certain duration of time passes and after we have some sex ( if this fantasy would be still on my mind )
No! It's wonderful. If someone is making love to me, my whole body is their domain provided they don't hurt it. Licking never hurt anything. So, go ahead
Brey20 well I cant really remember the moment where I started to have the urge to lick an ass, but at one time I am sure that ever man will have that urge
I have done it today, best feeling really awesome thing, there is a weird smell that turns me on , there is a weird feeling that makes me feel great , and the most important is that she really enjoyed it thats what really really turns on , good feeling to make ur girl enjoying sex , she even asked again for it and she told me it was great , I am so happy
I enjoy having it done to me, but probably enjoy giving it even more. Like you said, the smell really turns me on and also just the idea that it's so dirty
When I'm turned on, I always start licking her ass. It makes me even harder. It's so erotic. Last night I asked my girlfriend, "do you like that." She said, "it's OK." WTF? I've had other girls in the past that liked it. They always moan, like they're having pleasure. Only one woman ever did it to me. She was a cougar type, in her prime and full of lust.
I have had it done to me once (I am male) and I absolutely loved it. I would never ask for it though. I do however love to lick a womans ass and its not something we discuss - it just happens, as mentioned above, whilst in the course of other oral related business! My wife used to think it was gross and icky in theory but once she had had a couple of drinks and a smoke and we were in the heat of good sex she would often raise her little tush up and invite a good licking and she loved it. Basically it feels great for most people. Do it is my advice, lifes too short not to.