My best friend ignores me

If this guy is real, it would be hard to treat him with respect.

 

Actually that sounds like a very good idea.

It's obviously something deep, and just trying to walk away doesn't seem like something he can do. But maybe if he has a diversion he could walk away from this abusive girl, and actually learn how to have sex and normal (if kinky) relationships, and how to handle people. Basically, live out the fantasies that he's stuck on, so he can grow up.

I expect if he did, his sexual taste would widen and he'd grow up a bit, as well.

As long as everything was done safely and he was associating with people who, regardless of their leather or whips, are good.

 

everytime this thread comes back up i can't help but think how obvious it is that THIS IS NOT YOUR BEST FRIEND

 

Technically, if he has 2 friends and one is even worse...

 

then may GOD have mercy on us all...

 

It happened 11 times? Is it possible that you didn´t have the slightest idea that she might have sex with the guy? Then you must be incredibly naïve, or didn´t you want to believe it? And how could you console her when she had been taken advantage of you and deceived you in that way? It must be a love without any limits.

Did she confess that too?

You seems very wimpy. What was that fight about? What happened?

It sounds as if you like it when she humiliates you. As if it turns you on. There is a lot of signs who indicate that here. A lot of people do that so there is nothing to be ashamed about. If that is the case with you I understand. Have I right? I Think she might tell you about the guy just to make fun of you.

 

I don´t like when she humiliates me, but in a way it turns me on, yes. I do anything for her and I overwhelm her with money and gifts, but I never get anything in return. She has made it clear that she will never ever sleep with me, but she can sleep with guys who only use her and who never could imagine doing anything for her.

When we two are alone together and talk intimate and she brags about her love affairs and her sexual adventures, and when she brags about all the nice and expensive gifts she give her friends, she is driving me crazy. I get so incredible jealous. It burns like fire in my heart and I get strong lovelorn feelings.

I had enough of her humiliation when I was babysitting when she had sex with that guy. And okey! I confess. I did know. Not the first times, but later on. She didn´t tell me, but I was wondering why I had to babysit the whole night when they only went to cinema or museum. And I was wondering why she needed so much money every time. For example, museum was free at that time. And the guy, I know him too, he told me that they use to go on nightclub and partying there on my expense and that they used to fuck like rabbits afterwards, while I was babysitting her daughter. I felt so infringed. I burst into tears and begged him to leave her alone. When he told me that she was the one who always took the initiative and nagged all the time, I paid him off for not seeing her any more. But the very next day they were dating again.

I asked her about it but she denied and said that he was only joking. I begged her not to have sex with him, at least not while I was babysitting. I said it would be so degrading and embarrassing, and she assured me she wouldn´t, but yet, that was just what she did.

When he dumped her she came to me to get consolation and she confessed that she had having sex with him every time and that she have been forced to take him to the nightclub and treat him with a lot of alcohol, and pay him, to get him in bed. He didn´t want to sleep with her unless he was drunk. All the time he had another girl too, and now that other girl was back home again, so she didn´t have a chanced. She was deep in love with that guy, but for him, she was just a pastime and a substitute when the other girl was abroad studying. She felt so betrayed and cheated and she was completely broken hearted. I felt so sorry for her that my heart melted. She was sitting on my lap and cried like a baby, while I was hugging her and kissing her on the top of her head all the time. After a long time of consolation I managed to get her in a good mood, and she smiled again.

When she once had confessed about the sex, she continued and told me a lot of intimate details. When hearing all this I thought it was only fair that even I, for once could be allowed to feel a little lovingness and tenderness. In fact I needed consolation too. I asked if I never would get any kiss from her, but not even then she could kiss me. No, never, she replied, laughing, and that was the straw. I get so horny that it backfired in my head. Without any permission I overwhelmed her with kisses during giggling and laughter from her. I kissed her cheeks and I licked her hands. When I finally kissed her on the mouth and she stopped giggle and squeezed her lips together I got an involuntary ejaculation. She started to guffaw and tease me for it.

She continues to come to me and tell me about her love affairs and when she needs consolation. I think she need to feel that at least someone alisten to her and care for her, and you are probably quite right that she might brag about these things just to tease me, she knows what will happen. I see it in that way myself, but I don´t think she make things up, or lie. I know she use to buy gifts to her friends and I know she is slutty and sleeps with guys.

The quarrel we had was when she came to me and asked for money and that I would wash her laundry after she has been writing some naughty things about me on Facebook. I refused because of her writing. Then our friendship is over, she said and slammed the door and ran away. I ran after crying and begging to recover our friendship. I said I will do whatever she want me to. I acted about the same way this time too. That´s all.

 

Leave the girl and find yourself a therapist.

Or perhaps do the latter first.

 

hey, i'm sleeping with your friend. that will be $300 please.

 

how ridiculous. I agree that he's being a pansy but since when is a man not allowed to cry? Men must withhold their tears in order to secure their manliness?

 

i suppose it depends. crying over what he claims to have cried over is pretty pathetic.

of course, the guy you quoted is a pretty notorious troll anyway, so i would take whatever he has said with a grain of salt.

 

Just as i thought.

I still don´t understand how you can degrade yourself like this.

Did you cum that time too lol? What did she write?

 

I agree with you.

 

I had been driving her to a party and afterwards some friends of her asked who I am. Someone asked if I was her boyfriend. I printed her reply and I saved it.
Her reply was: Boyfriend? No, not at a hundred million years. Maybe in his head but not in mine. He is my sugardaddy and he does everything I want him to. He can´t resist my charm and I know he is deeply in love with me. He is really stupid and he seems to think I might like him. The truth is that he will never get me, never ever, that´s the way it is.

He is simply a fat, ugly and disgusting, pathetic looser. The only use I have for him is to give me the money I need, to drive me anywhere I want, and to babysit. He is simply my wallet and my property. He just has to pay and shut up. It´s just as simple as that.


It was about that we had our quarrel. I asked if that´s what she really Think about me and she said yes. I said that I wouldn´t give her any money and I wouldn´t do her laundry. When she ran away, I changed my mind. I wouldn´t lose her. I ran after her and when I got hold of her again, I kissed and licked her hands during crying and begged her not to abandon me. I said that my heart would bleed to death if she did. I told her I love her so much that I always will do anything for her, no matter how naughty she is to me. And yes, I cum that time too.