I met this girl who I really like and she likes me. We may begin a relationship within the next 3 months. We have had sex a few times and she says that I pre-cum too much for her when she gives me oral. This is my view. I need my oral sex. When I say say "my" I mean i get and happily give too. Now, I also cannot be with someone who won't only give me oral but it has to be "up to par". If mine is not "up to par" then I am willing to improve. I am not a selfish or lazy lover. Personally, I never expect the ideal situation in anything so I think she should continue on and eventually she will get used it to and it won't matter. Continuing... My question: Is there anything I can do to prevent my pre-cum or reduce it so this isn't a problem in our relationship? I will likely walk away if she starts with the excuses for giving me oral but I want to work this out and not walk. I also eat fruits and veggies everyday so I know (or at least by theory) my pre-cum isn't salty. She not complaining about the taste just the amount.
LoL I've never heard of a guy having to much pre-cum before this is a first.. I think she's looking for a way out of giving you the same satisfaction you give her.. Try telling her she gets to wet when you go down on her and see how she responds On a different note you say you eat plenty of fruit and vegigies.. I strongle urge you to eat fresh pineapple and stay well hydrated everyday you should never get a taste complaint ever again As far as ways to manage your amount of pre-cum well make sure you drain the vein in the morning mayhaps during your shower.. Make sure to wash and dry thoroughly dont want any smegma building up.. On to the precum well really the only way to prevent it is not to get aroused by what she is doing.. Really its a compliment to her that you are digging her oral game.. In a few years you will be asking how to increase your amount of precum its the bodies natural way of lubricating itself there is no known technique that i'm aware of to reduce it.. But i did hit a couple of sites looking for an answer to your question.. http://www.pegym.com/forums/penis-enlargement-forum/27264-how-can-i-stop-pre-cum.html http://ehealthforum.com/health/topic59250.html Not the first time this questions been asked on here http://www.hipforums.com/newforums/showthread.php?t=394942 http://www.reddit.com/r/sex/comments/1a2qx3/women_does_precum_gross_you_out/ So it seems after looking at a few sites and many female responses your girl has the problem most women enjoy it and love it so idk bro you might wanna try doing some kegel exercises it might help http://www.askmen.com/dating/love_tip_60/67_love_tip.html.. Well i've laready spent more time here than i planned on. Best of luck to you man
Think yourself lucky. I love precum, but don't produce it myself, and although precum seems to be thought of as being something that happens to all men, only a small minority of the men I've been with have actually been able to produce it.
